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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 24
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Atheism and laughing about it
English, French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a warm, solid, intelligent guy. I sometimes fall asleep in the shirt I wore all day. I make good coffee. I try to keep my plants alive.

I like intelligent, interesting or kind guys. I find smarts and humor and awareness all really attractive. I kid around with the people I love.

I'm a filmmaker and I teach filmmaking at a university. In a lot of ways I'm like my students; I get interested in some new thing-- a director, a film, a book, some food, whatever-- and I like to share it with everyone around me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reading Raymond Chandler right now, also Maus 1 & 2 again, and some other stuff. Trouble is my Business (R. Carver) is the best writing I've come across in years.

-I stay involved with the lives of my two god-children who live here in the city. I see them once a week at least.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Starting a fire with a Duraflame log.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My friends told me the list below is a surefire way to scare nice, normal people away and that I should erase the whole thing. You don't have to know or like any of the following:

Edward Hopper, Primo Levi, Mel Brooks, Jacques Demy's films, Harold Pinter screenplays, Cassavetes' A Woman Under the Influence, The Field Guide to American House Architecture, stupid blockbusters, Mario Bava, Robert Bresson, all those nazi documentaries on Netflix, Flannery O'Connor, The Four Last Songs, Charles Burchfield watercolors, Suspiria, Frankenstein, Pier Paolo Pasolini,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six things I'd be worse off without:

- Pizza at John's on Bleecker,

- the amusement park scene in Lola,

- the credits of Psycho,

- Arrabiata sauce,

- my apartment,

- Thirteen Ways of Looking at a Blackbird
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Just get rid of the "about" /\...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Stoop sitting, people watching, laughing with my idiotic friends over some joke that was bad to begin with but has grown funny through repetition, going to the Strand, eating on some bench, balancing a book and a cup of hot chocolate…sometimes malbec is involved.