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jdemy1

50 New York, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a warm, solid, intelligent, guy. I sometimes fall asleep in the shirt I wore all day. I make good coffee. I don't own lots of things I don't use.

I like smart people who can laugh at themselves. I like people who haven't succumbed to finding everything ironic. I like kidding around with the people I love. I like bright minds.

I'm a filmmaker and I teach filmmaking at a university. In a lot of ways I'm like my students; I get interested in some new thing-- a director, a film, a book, some food, whatever-- and I like to share it with everyone around me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
-I buy way too many books about Early American architecture, horror movies and anthologies of short stories.

-I stay involved with the lives of my two god-children who live here in the city. I see them once a week at least.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
enjoying what I already have.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My friends told me the list below is a surefire way to scare nice, normal people away and that I should erase the whole thing:

Jacques Demy's films, Pontormo and Rosso Fiorentinos' Depositions, Harold Pinter, Cassavetes' A Woman Under the Influence, The Field Guide to American House Architecture, C.T. Dreyer, disappointing blockbusters, Mario Bava, Robert Bresson, all those nazi documentaries on Netflix, Jean Rhys, Beethoven, Flannery O'Connor, The Four Last Songs, Charles Burchfield watercolors, Suspiria, I'm learning to make eggs (shut up- I never did it before), Frankenstein, Pier Paolo Pasolini, Hopper...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six things I'd be worse off without:

- the opening paragraph of The Haunting of Hill House,

- the amusement park scene in Lola,

- Pasolini's The Gospel According to Saint Matthew,

- Silent Snow, Secret Snow by Conrad Aiken,

- pizza at John's on Bleecker

- Thirteen Ways of Looking at a Blackbird
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human nature.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Stoop sitting, people watching, laughing with my idiotic friends over some joke that was bad to begin with but has grown funny through repetition, going to this vegetarian place by my house for burnt broccoli, eating on some bench, balancing a book and a cup of hot chocolate.
You should message me if
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You're skeptical and hopeful.