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49 M New York, NY

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Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a warm, solid, smart, guy. I sometimes fall asleep in the shirt I wore all day. I make good coffee. I apologize. I do not own fancy gay underwear. I take my god kids for ice cream once a week.

I like smart people who can laugh at themselves. I like people who haven't succumbed to finding everything ironic. I like kidding around with the people I love.

I'm a filmmaker and I teach filmmaking. In a lot of ways I'm like my students; I get totally interested in some new thing and I like to share it with everyone around me.
What I’m doing with my life
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-I buy way too many books about Early American architecture, horror movies and anthologies of short stories.

-I stay involved with the lives of my two god-children who live here in the city. I see them once a week at least. We draw dragons and then cut them out and have battles. We make forts, read books and sometimes try new and unusual toppings on our ice cream.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
enjoying what I already have.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My friends told me the list below is a surefire way to scare nice, normal people away and that I should erase the whole thing:

Jacques Demy's films, Pontormo and Rosso Fiorentinos' Depositions, Harold Pinter, Cassavetes' A Woman Under the Influence, The Field Guide to American House Architecture, C.T. Dreyer, disappointing blockbusters, Mario Bava, Robert Bresson, all those nazi documentaries on Netflix, Jean Rhys, Beethoven, Flannery O'Connor, The Four Last Songs, Charles Burchfield watercolors, Suspiria, I'm learning to make eggs (shut up- I never did it before), Frankenstein, Pier Paolo Pasolini, Hopper...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six things I'd be worse off without:

- the opening paragraph of The Haunting of Hill House,

- the amusement park scene in Lola,

- Pasolini's The Gospel According to Saint Matthew,

- Silent Snow, Secret Snow by Conrad Aiken,

- pizza at John's on Bleecker

- Thirteen Ways of Looking at a Blackbird
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human nature.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Stoop sitting, people watching, laughing with my idiotic friends over some joke that was bad to begin with but has grown funny through repetition, going to this vegetarian place by my house for burnt broccoli, eating on some bench, balancing a book and a cup of hot chocolate.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You live and think independently, yet laugh a lot and think nothing is funnier than human beings.