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jdurnin

52 / M / straight / Single

Saint Paul, Minnesota

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am Happy, Spiritual, and Sensual.

My Self-Summary

I am easy to be with, nonjudgmental, and open minded. My philosophy is to follow my heart's desire (intuition), need nothing, and choose joy in every moment. I'm seeking a life partner who's confident, happy, romantic, and loves a good foot massage. Someone who has a good sense of humor, and laughs easily and often. Someone who knows that she is already whole and complete, and by seeking a mate is simply choosing to expand the joy in all areas of her life. Someone who truly likes herself, appreciates her own beauty inside and out, and wouldn't find it very difficult to think of herself as a Goddess.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm self-employed and work at home. I create software for the global optimization of multiple functions with constraints (which is much more fun than it sounds!), and also work on internet marketing.

I’m really good at

Cooking some of my favorite dishes that I don't find offered locally - like baked clams oreganata (LOTS of garlic), shrimp parmagiana, and potato croquettes. My family is Irish, but I was raised on Italian food.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm always chuckling, and sometimes laughing very hard.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

"The Vortex" - by Esther and Jerry Hicks. My other favorite authors include Eckhart Tolle, Byron Katie, Sanaya Roman, and David Hawkins. I also love a wide range of music, everything from Bach to Black Eyed Peas. I love every type of cuisine, but Italian is probably my favorite. I haven't found any restaurants yet in MN that serve the East Coast style Italian dishes that I grew up with in Brooklyn, NY. Also love sushi, and pretty much anything hot and spicy.

The six things I could never do without

Desire, Intention, Allowance, and Surrender. (I only need four :)