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je_mappelle

57 / F / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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I am playful, disarming, and mischievous.

My Self-Summary

As a kid I became convinced that I can fly, and I check into this often. I climb on things like the deck in my yard and I lift my arms and jump, waiting for a current to sweep my into the air. For this reason, I have to be luminous, otherwise I might get lost in the sky.

[Sorry this is incomplete; I'm editing my profile and the areas below.]

What I’m doing with my life

Asking questions (and caring less over time about answers). Playing with my stuff. Looking. Seeking stability over demons and kindness over power. Searching.

I’m really good at

Saving nearly dead plants, laminating, finding grammatical errors, walking uphill, making people laugh, flying off my deck.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes, my smile, my laughter, and, depending on what I'm wearing, my legs.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Music ~ Jazz, African, Cuban, Classical .... Gerry Mulligan, Prince, Nina Simone, Nirvana, Chet Baker, Foo Fighters, Bob Dylan, Lena Horne, Led Zeppelin, The Flatlanders, The Rolling Stones, Charlie Hayden, John Lennon, Metallica, The Band, Bob Dylan, Stan Getz, Miles Davis, Public Enemy, Etta Jones .... [need to stop!] Oops, just heard and like Crooked Vultures
TV ~ The Wire, The Wire, and The Wire. Breaking Bad
Films ~ Coen brothers, Barbarian Invasions, Boy X, Brazil, City of God, Love Liza, Mean Streets, Everything is Illuminated, Songs From the 2nd Floor, The Visitor, The Official Story, The Squid and the Whale, Wondrous Oblivion, The Fall ...
Food ~ Fresh fruits, vegetables, seafood, spices of all kinds, olive oil, ginger, lemon, garlic
Books ~ Leaving Cheyenne, Culture of Narcissism, White Noise, The Tibetan Book of the Dead, The John McPhee Reader (the first one).
I read lots of non-fiction books for my work (and my own pleasure) in the areas of media and (popular) culture.

The six things I could never do without

the unusual, nature, touch, beauty, all of the emotions, hope (and honesty).

I spend a lot of time thinking about

All kinds of things: Where that road goes. Why that woman is driving so fast with her son in the back seat. Men. How to understand what many would think of as 'bad' behavior by imagining the circumstances (usually childhood) that would come together to produce that behavior..

On a typical Friday night I am

exactly who I am on Tuesday morning.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have a piece of a young male athlete's ribcage in my nose.

You should message me if

you're (also) looking for full moon howling, endless laughter, and ecstasy.