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40 Seattle, WA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 7, 2014
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Entertainment / Media
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Most of my interests are related to a fascination with the human condition: cognitive psychology, spirituality, sexual behavior, physiology, writing, reading, linguistics, comparative language...

I am passionate about the connective power of language. I love that with words we can ease, tease, compliment, cut, inform, and instruct as needed. Care and attention to communication of all kinds is important to me.

I'm a compulsive singer, an enthusiastic cook, a sometimes writer, a good talker, a good listener, and a torturer of people willing to speak with me in the non-native languages I know (French and Spanish).

I'm really technologically proficient for a technophobe.

I like to make things happen with the power of my will. I love my friends. I have no patience for people who are too cool to be enthusiastic about anything.

I am honest, passionate, and curious. I'm also blunt, moody, and nosy. You've been warned.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have little idea what I want to be when I grow up, so I am grateful to have a job I'm good at in an interesting industry (web production for entertainment media). I travel as much as I can to slap a bandaid on my existential ennui.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
understanding the human condition, making soups and sauces, and choosing the best wine for the meal.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A study (via Facebook) concludes that people are impressed by my eyes, my smarts, my beauty, my smile, and the fact that my body is animate, yet I am clearly not a zombie or ghost.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Fifth Sacred Thing, Hitchhikers Trilogy, Hundred Years of Solitude, Illuminatus Trilogy, Straight Man, Leaves of Grass, The Names, Foucault's Pendulum... All things Garcia-Marquez, De Lillo, Russo, Winterson, Atwood... Spy novels, pop fiction, popular scientific nonfiction... And much more...

Movies: Garden State, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Breakfast Club, Princess Bride, Top Gun, Prospero's Books, Stealing Beauty, Amelie, almost any dance movie, and almost any young-girl-makes-good-in-the-big-city movie.

Music:Jeff Buckley, Jane's Addiction, Massive Attack, Badly Drawn Boy, Saeta, Yo La Tengo, Miles Davis, Ella Fitzgerald, Elliott Smith, Graig Markel, Sarah McLachlan, Joni Mitchell, Alexi Murdoch, Carissa's Wierd, most singer/songwriters who take themselves too seriously, stuff with melody, rhythm, or clever lyrics. Also anything I can sing along to.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
water, food, wine, affection, music, words.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I want my life to be like, and how typical this consideration is among humans.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Meeting a friend for dinner or drinks right after work to claim my free time as early as possible.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have an OK Cupid profile.
You should message me if
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You can write a grammatically correct message, you are not already in some kind of "serious" romantic relationship, and you would also like 1) me to tell you how to cook something or, 2) to convince me we are not too old to go out to karaoke or, 3) to give me compliments of any kind.