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60 Brooklyn, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 55-70
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 27
5' 1" (1.55m)
Body Type
Average build
Other and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i love nature and the woods most of all. two years in a row, spent two weeks alone (with my dog) in a cabin in the adirondacks, hiking every day, reading, writing poetry and playing my guitar.
i was very, very happy.
one summer i hit every state/national forest i could on a cross-country road trip
i'm kind, articulate,gentle, creative, and spontaneous, looking for the first two especially in a man.
want to expand out into the world as much as i can before i die. want a partner to do this with me.
sorta hindu/buddhist,i practice meditation regularly as possible, sometimes one kind sometimes another. i'm a cynical mystic (or a mystical cynic)
i'm pretty, not beautiful, but pretty. cute is what people say.
i have three cats and a dog who i love. i would have a ferret but they're illegal in nyc. i want one because i love their little hands and their small pink tongues when they yawn
4 days a week i'm a therapist and 3 days i spend writing poetry well and playing guitar passably (depending on the passing grade).
unless something else intervenes. like life.
once i got a BFA in jazz performance as a vocalist.
i'm honest, loyal and true, though they wouldn't let me in the boy scouts, which made me mad, since the girl scouts in queens didn't do anything good
i am disappointed in our president, even though i tried not to get my hopes up.
i hate big corporations and ayn rand.
at the same time i believe in compassion for all living things.
life is paradox.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
see above
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening to people when they're upset, celebrating with them when they're happy
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
depends on the day and the person.

ask them.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
i like novels with perfectly balanced sentences that say surprising things, and poetry that is also surprising.

i like walt whitman and edna st. vincent millay and some slam poets and a bunch of poets you never heard of.

i love jazz, from bebop on, but not frank sinatra, blues (esp. chicago blues), motown....

i like food.

lately i watch too much t.v. (a phase. i'm sure it's a phase).... i like zombie movies. i like independent film. watch a lot of sundance channel and linktv, but also like "the walking dead" on amc. sorry.
i like old films in black and white with good dead actors.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(1)my dog

(2)my cats

(3)my friends

(5)parks woods

(6)the city?.

six, huh? six... then, again.... what can't i do without? it would be hard not to have a place to live, or water.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
life, and why?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
no typical, these days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i refuse to admit to that
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're a gentle, warm, smart person somewhere around my age who is funny, or at least laughs at my jokes

someone to:

swap favorite novels,

crack jokes,



hang around with my dog (& three cats),

wander around foreign cities,

wander around familiar cities,

wander around the inside of each others' heads,

and maybe later, each others' bodies,

who's patient, encouraging, just generally nice.