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jeffnindo
31 / M / Straight / Single
Boston, New York
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Compilation
May 22
On the Inevitability of Failure:
-Learn from your mistakes, adapt to new data, and carry forward
with the business of living. And if you're very lucky, you may have
the opportunity to help someone else in avoiding the same
mistake.
On the Inevitability of Death:
-Death is the admission price for life. That we are here at all,
against all odds, is something to appreciate. Think of the
generations before us who were all so thoroughly modern,
civilizations that lasted centuries longer than our nation-states
now dust.
The last thing that those who loved us but are no longer here would
want, is for us to be unhappy. Mourn, as it the natural process of
things. Give yourself time to cope, to find your own way to say
good bye.
When our time comes, surely we would not want our friends and
family to wail into the Ether for the rest of their lives.
Squandering their inheritance and sanity on seances and palm
readers and charlatans. We would want them to move on while
remembering the good times we've shared in life. We would want them
to look forward and embrace the possibilities of life and to pass
on a bright future to the next generation that they may stand on
our shoulders. We would not want them to languish in delusional
apathy, longing for a past that can never come again and implicitly
forfeiting any future happiness whatever.
Make the most of your time, find happiness by making others so.
Help those who cannot help themselves and our civilization is just
a little bit more worthy of the name.
On the Exceptional Person:
-If everyone passively accepted the morality of their elders, the
American founding fathers would never have crafted their republic
in the New World, civil rights would be an academic exercise in all
countries except only some, and there will have been zero progress
in the world since the Bronze Age. The exceptional person can look
beyond the era and country into which they happen to have been
born, and contemplate the possibilities of a future mindset (at the
individual and societal level) which is unfettered by the dogma of
widely accepted convention.
On the Teenage Perspective:
-The teenage years don't necessarily have to constitute the best
years of life. In fact, they often don‘t. The price of youth is a
distinct restriction placed by society upon various personal
freedoms. Whether it concerns educational achievement beyond the
mandatory curriculum, a social network that extends beyond peers of
a particular age group, or a lack of direction regarding career, it
is accepted that before maturity, young people lack the experience
and perspective needed to make responsible choices.
Time is required before one can, as a capable and mature adult, put
the experiences of youth into proper perspective. When evaluating
your options in a social situation, do not adopt the expectations
of peers, whether friend, acquaintance, or stranger by fiat. Do the
hard work of thinking for yourself, and insist on acting for your
own good pleasure.
Depression is not the natural state, particularly in youth. Some
stress is needed in life in order to cope effectively. Do not
accept the stigmas that persist in some parts of the world
regarding mental health. For the sake of ourselves and our loved
ones, we must develop the courage to take the tough first step of
acknowledging symptoms of mental health issues when they arise
rather than ignore them.
Don't accept the authority of any one person regarding the
questions of life. Research the many curiosities of existence for
yourself, come to your own conclusions for your own reasons. The
answers on offer from others will likely be what they’ve found to
be most convincing to them, but they are not you dear reader.
As you advance down the path of life, ensure that you not only
never stop asking questions, but insist upon demanding answers that
satisfy your judgment.
On the Meaning of Life:
-Don't accept someone else's answer to what your life should or
should not mean, because by definition you are best qualified to do
the work of finding the answers for yourself! In the process of
seeking it, read about the great figures of history. Broaden the
scope of your knowledge and thus, gain perspective on your own
time. With perspective thus gained, you just might find where your
passions lie.
On the Desire for Eternal Life:
-I for one do not wish to exist eternally. If we lived forever,
there would be no meaning in any of our endeavors. It is because we
are only here for so long (and lucky for it) that we should make
the most of the time that we do have, in the only world we know
anything about. Tell the people in your life how you feel while you
have the opportunity. For those who are no longer here, enjoy the
good memories created with them, for they are made all the more
valuable because we can never make new memories.
The certain expectation of eternity cheapens the idea of life in
this world. Because life is finite, we seek to improve it for
ourselves and others. We stand on the shoulders of those who came
before us, because they did not sit idly by, secure in the
knowledge that absolutely nothing could ever possibly change no
matter how many centuries pass.
- On Quantifying Intelligence:
Those who can't be bothered to do the hard the work of thinking for
themselves will be more easily distracted as they sleep-walk their
way through what can only be a passive existence. Blinded to any
possibilities beyond the arbitrary conventions of thought, dress,
and custom that are accepted in the society, so many seem content
to wallow in an self-induced miasma of apathy. One is considered
intelligent in proportion with the extent to which one lives the
examined life, refusing to be satisfied with these
conventions.
For 'g' (general intellectual functioning) like any number of
phenotypic effects, there is room for variety in the expression of
genes among a given population. You will have the majority of
people being of average intellectual capacity (the top of the bell
curve in a normal distribution). You will also have both extremes
of genius and simplicity at either far end of the same scale where
a much smaller proportion of the general population is represented.
This of course assumes a statistically significant sample
size.
That said, intelligence, as neurophysiology, is poorly understood.
Consider the standard educational curriculum. A randomly selected
student may have a learning style not suited to a traditional
classroom setting. He or she may learn better visually or by
reading, they may prosper in a group setting or by studying
individually, ect.
On Purpose:
-Atheism does not imply nihilism. Looking at life as a singular
chance to leave the world in a better place than I found it, for
friends and family if not for the world, is meaningful in itself.
This purpose, undertaken with conscious consideration, is tangible
through every subsequent action taken for it's own sake. Life is
thus undertaken for the general betterment without expectation of
any divine reward or punishment whatever.
Contrast this perspective with that of a religionist who,
desperately looking to another world for the comfort and certitude
of eternal life at the cosmic scale, is content to label the ills
of the world as sinful and the best that can be expected from mere
mortals. This perspective of infinity implies that for justice to
have any meaning, it must also exist at the cosmic scale. How else
to redress the imbalances of life on this mere spec of a planet,
with its unanswered toils and sufferings, than through divine
edict.
Justice, for them, must be handed back down from on high by a
divine, supernatural, and thoroughly unknown dimension of imagined
posturings to be in any sense meaningful. In contrast, those of us
who do not assign a supernatural dimension to such matters insist
that if justice is to be done, we must seek it through the courts,
the legislature, and the executive. If those who came before us
thought that life was without purpose, we would not have
civilization, art, philosophy, culture, science, or commerce
today.
Brain Candy
May 1, 2010
When I was in Fifth grade we all stood to recite the pledge of
allegiance and I pondered the words and their meaning. They all
made some sort of sense except 'Under God.' It was a question I
felt, for whatever reason, should remain unasked. Perhaps due to my
desire to remain in good standing with the relevant authority
figures.
In elementary school we sang songs to Columbus who 'discovered
America'. We should've sang praise to Eratosthenes of Alexandria.
He calculated the circumference of a 'round' earth to high
precision millenia before Columbus was even born.
In Middle School we learned Greek mythology and I figured 'God' was
our culture's equivalent. Ancient stories from which we derive
meaning to apply to the questions of today. To give some people a
foundation upon which to build their lives. I found myself
wondering how many centuries would have to pass before children
learned of Jesus the same way I learned about Zeus.
In high school I saw news coverage in the library of some sort of
meeting between the President and Arab leaders. Seeing this I
figured there must be isolated pockets of people out there who
still took religion seriously, or at least chose to take it upon
themselves to practice local traditions for their own sake,
carrying them lovingly into the future.
All this time I adopted a live and let live philosophy with those
who thought differently from myself. Who was I to presume I knew
better?
9/11 happened and I realized some people will go to any length to
rationalize violence. There are those who would hijack their
culture's values, their people's personal moral standing, and
distort them for their own selfish political agendas. They would
dare to call it morality, and they would find many others willing
to embrace the flames of destruction.
I was still in college at this time. Most of my thinking was
focused on curriculum to the abandon of most everything else I now
realize.
Since graduating with my BA, I found myself scouring the internet
for knowledge... looking for others who thought like me. 5 years
out of school, finding myself typing all this, I can reflect
properly.
Through the magic of the digital age (pod casts and websites), I've
come to appreciate my scientific world view for what it is.
I've run the spectrum of academic beliefs: certainty that the
universe doesn't owe us comfort or meaning, questioning my
perception of reality, judging others a little too quickly. All
this when I should've pondered the words I heard so long ago: the
wise man knows that he knows nothing.
Given an infinite universe, that which we deem improbable, even
impossible, may end up being inevitable. How presumptuous we
are.
Given enough time, the space between us and the nearest galaxies
may expand enough that our decedents will ''observe' nothing
outside the Milky Way. Humanity may revert to earlier notions that
there is nothing at all in the great beyond.
Given the above, my objective world view, which I've valued my
whole life, is in question.
If those who follow us fail to conceive of a reality beyond that
which they can see, or worse mistake our ponderings (should they
survive) for delusion just as we look at the religious teachings of
the societies in power before us with pity for their ignorance, how
can we progress?
I wonder if humanity will survive long enough to migrate to another
solar system before the average yellow star we've deemed the Sun
dies and takes Earth with it.
I've come to value the people in my life more than anything, and
I'm struggling with a way to express it.
I feel its up to us to give our own lives meaning. Starting with
the people we choose to walk alongside down the path of life.
Despite the above, part of me cant help wondering if happiness is
anything more than a self imposed delusion in itself. Something our
brains have evolved to do over time.
I dont know what I want out of life, other than I dont wish to lose
anyone else in the process of living it.
I'm happy to have had the chance to discuss the book Atlas Shrugged
briefly with Uncle David before his passing. I have a copy that is
on my reading list.
I dont know if I should go back to school for an MBA, a major I
took out of indecision, or take up a scientific branch, something I
may enjoy yet not have the aptitude for.
I guess happiness for me is instilling it in those around me.
I wish I could claim all this came from my own mind. The truth is
I've likely heard it all else where. I just put it together in this
particular way for reasons I dont understand. I guess everyone
looks for a way to express themselves once they find something to
say.
I'll take that a step further and borrow from what I've read most
recently. I too would like to be able to play the piano. I would
love to sit down and play Chopin, give it my own spin.
An Honest God Is The Noblest Work of Man
Jan 3, 2010
The Gods (1872), by Robert Ingersoll
The first account we have of the devil is found in that purely
scientific book called Genesis, and is as follows:
"Now the serpent was more subtle than any beast of the field which
the Lord God had made, and he said unto the woman, Yea, hath God
said, Ye shall not eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden? And
the woman said unto the serpent, We may eat of the fruit of the
trees of the garden; but of the fruit of the tree which is in the
midst of the garden God hath said, Ye shall not eat of it, neither
shall ye touch it, lest ye die. And the serpent said unto the
woman, Ye shall not surely die. For God doth know that in the day
ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened and ye shall be as
gods, knowing good and evil. And when the woman saw that the tree
was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree
to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof and
did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her, and he did eat. *
* And the Lord God said Behold the man is become as one of us, to
know good and evil; and now, lest he put forth his hand, and take
also of the tree of life: and eat, and live forever. Therefore the
Lord God sent him forth from the Garden of Eden to till the ground
from which he was taken. So he drove out the man, and he placed at
the east of the Garden of Eden cherubim and a flaming sword, which
turned every way to keep the way of the tree of life."
According to this account the promise of the devil was fulfilled to
the very letter, Adam and Eve did not die, and they did become as
gods, knowing good and evil.
The account shows, however, that the gods dreaded education and
knowledge then just as they do now. The church still faithfully
guards the dangerous tree of knowledge, and has exerted in all ages
her utmost power to keep mankind from eating the fruit thereof. The
priests have never ceased repeating the old falsehood and the old
threat: "Ye shall not eat of it, neither shall ye touch it, lest ye
die." From every pulpit comes the same cry, born of the same fear:
"Lest they eat and become as gods, knowing good and evil." For this
reason, religion hates science, faith detests reason, theology is
the sworn enemy of philosophy, and the church with its flaming
sword still guards the hated tree, and like its supposed founder,
curses to the lowest depths the brave thinkers who eat and become
as gods.
If the account given in Genesis is really true, ought we not, after
all, to thank this serpent? He was the first schoolmaster, the
first advocate of learning, the first enemy of ignorance, the first
to whisper in human ears the sacred word liberty, the creator of
ambition, the author of modesty, of inquiry, of doubt, of
investigation, of progress and of civilization.
Give me the storm and tempest of thought and action, rather than
the dead calm of ignorance and faith! Banish me from Eden when you
will; but first let me eat of the fruit of the tree of
knowledge!
...
To me, it seems easy to account for these ideas concerning gods and
devils. They are a perfectly natural production. Man has created
them all, and under the same circumstances would create them again.
Man has not only created all these gods, but he has created them
out of the materials by which he has been surrounded. Generally he
has modeled them after himself, and has given them hands, heads,
feet, eyes, ears. and organs of speech. Each nation made its gods
and devils speak its language not only, but put in their mouths the
same mistakes in history, geography, astronomy, and in all matters
of fact, generally made by the people. No god was ever in advance
of the nation that created him.
The negroes represented their deities with black skins and curly
hair. The Mongolian gave to his a yellow complexion and dark
almond-shaped eyes. The Jews ware not allowed to paint theirs, or
we should have seen Jehovah with a full beard, an oval face, and an
aquiline nose. Zeus was a perfect Greek, and Jove looked as though
a member of the Roman senate. The gods of Egypt had the patient
face and placid look of the loving people who made them. The gods
of northern countries were represented warmly clad in robes of fur;
those of the tropics were naked. The gods of India were often
mounted upon elephants; those of some islanders were great
swimmers, and the deities of the Arctic zone were passionately fond
of whale's blubber.
Nearly all people have carved or painted representations of their
gods, and these representations were, by the lower classes,
generally treated as the real gods, and to these images and idols
they addressed prayers and offered sacrifice.