I am not the life of a big party, where there is alcohol and loud music. I avoid them like the plague. I will attend, only if someone wants me to. This is not to say, I am antisocial. I just tend to want to be around small groups of people.
I am looking for someone who gets me.
The questions on this site are interesting, somewhat one dimensional though. There is a lot of marriage question's. Make's sense, this is a big part of relationships. Most of these questions, do not have a realistic answer for someone who does not want marriage, but wants the values of one. I feel marriage is an outdated concept, that holds little value to anyone not religious. The only reason for nonreligious people to get married, is for tax reasons. Where is the love in that? We twist the old values of falling in love and getting married to some sort of trophy or achievement in life. How can I be happy without it? Meanwhile this added commitment is strangling the life out of the relationship. Are you not supposed to have fun in a relationship?
Religious Rant. Obligatory statement (I respect your views, and beliefs, and do not wish to offend, only to relate my feelings on the topic). I am agnostic. This basically means that I can respect anyone's belief, but I need some sort of hard evidence that I can see with my own eye's to believe it. Bottom line I find most religious people ignorant. The thing I do not understand is, this is for the agnostic and atheist's, how can you find Scientology to be more nonsense than Christianity? What makes one religion, more or less ridiculous than the next?
I tend to over think and over analyze everything.
I don't get out much. Consequently, I have gone out on two bad Craig's lists dates in the past year. I work a lot, and spare time is usually spent watching tv and movies. I play some video games. You will not find me on WOW. I am a big fan of the Final Fantasy games, If you have played them, major plus. I play card games as well as board games. I am a big fan of going out to eat. Willing to try most things once. I love to go camping, I have not done this in years though. I want to travel the world, live in other countries. Different cultures and view points fascinate me. I want to go to all the museums in LA, I just do not want to go alone.
I want to push myself to not settle, I do not want to be doing the same things I did last year. If I do, am I little more than a robot?
I want to be around people who are excited about life.
I think people often confuse cynicism with depression.
I am shy and do not know how to go about opening lines of communication over the internet. I try now and again, but I like when women email me. I know most women want the man to be the first to open the line. I have never understood this, but If my profile interest you, do not hesitate, I will write back.
BTW, I am not interested in not meeting you in person
I am a gamer, honest, and cynical