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jeme77

36 F Columbia, MO

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black, White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Wants kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am looking for a relationship. Someone that I can learn something from- someone who isn't afrAid to be challenged or be challenging - someone interested in comunicatiing.
And while friendships are wonderful - I am on this site for something more.

I suppose my instinct is to be too honest and overshare-
so- I will just share some personal observations or what ever pops into my head no matter how random.

I only cook for special people- and I will go out of my way.
I will be everyones best friend but I am very particular as to who is mine. I have an obsession with British TV and have seen way too many documentaries. I wanted to be a singer growing up but I don't like being the center of attention. I love aquariums and almost any kind of museum. I don't do yard work but I am an awesome cleaner/organizer! I love building things, putting things together-I will look at the pictures but, I don't read the directions.

I get along with almost all types of people but sarcasm is always a challenge for me; my gullibility gets in the way.
I love opinionated people but really respect tact.
jealousy is a wasted emotion. Fear is something to address. Compassion and empathy is hard and worth it!

I will learn about what ever my mate is interested in- and will look for ways to relate to all people. I am a little old fashioned in some ways and extremely progressive in others. Life is not black and white to me and really depends a lot on the context. I am very openminded and tend to see the positive in most situations.

obviously there is more to me than this- but if you have a question or comment, go for it...
What I’m doing with my life
Working too much and daydreaming about having a family.
I come from a very close family that is very far away- so- that often occupies my thoughts.

I live and dream about work and believe very deeply in what I do.
I often wish I had one of those careers/jobs that you didn't have to take home every night. I guess my ideal match would help me to let it go or relax a little. I don't think that I am uptight, just very passionate and committed to what ever I put my energy into. It is sometimes hard to turn that off.
I’m really good at
over analyzing everything!
bad sleeping habits
procrastinating
remaining humble
bad spelling punctuation and grammar
The first things people usually notice about me
genuine smile- I will always greet people with a sincere smile.
I had a colleague tell me recently that I smile with my eyes.

I am also a good listener and genuinely just interested in people and their life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Gunter Grass, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, David Foster Wallace, Zadie Smith, Radiohead, The Roots, Mos Def, Explosions in the Sky, Los Zafiros, Bill Withers, Interpol, Etta James, Patsy Cline, Nina Simone, The Mars Volta, Joni Mitchell, John Coltrane, Erykah Badu, Richard Pryor, Bill Cosby, Louis C.K.,Let The Right One In, Amalie, Amores Perros, Kitchen Stories, Arrested Development, Little Britain,Vicar of Dibley, Bob's Burgers, Golden Girls, Cosby Show, Louie.... and the list could go on forever!
The six things I could never do without
after the obvious food shelter water family friends love...

1. computer
2. sketchbook pen/pencil
3. car. ( my friends make fun of me because I always have to drive- they think its control.... I just love driving! A spontaneous road trip is always at the top of my list. trying to get lost or find something unusual is always fun.
4. the ocean. I still have dreams about it- but I sure do appreciate it now that I am so far away.
5. Sound. oddly- as a visual artist, the idea that I could not hear music is terrifying. In the case of a fire I would grab my computer and ipod.
6. Laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I daydream about all the places I will go- I think that is a Dr. Seuss book. I have a lot that I want to do and see! I often imagine who will be with me to see it.
On a typical Friday night I am
By myself usually- I have to reboot from the week usually.
Friday night is typically about me and my work in my studio with good music. I would be more than willing to share it with someone really special- but if not them I choose me and Art!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 33–46
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating