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jemethyst

38 Troutman, NC Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:08am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on med school
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Dedicated to those I care about, shy at first but open up with time and the right people and questions. I'd love to find someone to spend my life with; someone to talk with and have fun with even on quiet evenings at home. I do tend to be more of a 'home body", I can enjoy life with the simple things and actions. I enjoy the relaxed movie night at home with hot coffee/tea/chocolate (pick one), or a bottle of wine, meaningful conversation, possibly a board or card game with a few close friends. Sometimes the greatest comfort can even be found in shared silence. For the few that may take interest, I'm an introvert. Not good with crowds, they overwhelm pretty fast unless I have a nice safe corner to watch from. This doesn't mean I don't talk, because I do a lot, but not with large groups or when I feel pressured..etc.

Also.... I'm currently overweight, but I am working on correcting that part of my life with a healthy diet and exercise. Im not hiding the fact; I try to be as open and honest about things as possible - including that.

I "quit" smoking in October 2013, but I have found on a very few drinking occasions I have a cigarette. (This has happened 2-3 times basically since I quite)
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently assisting my parents with their needs and in the pre nursing program at the local community college. Yes, this means I'm living with them for now.... They are both on disability and wanted the help around the house, plus it's allowing me to do the school thing the way I need. I also work part-time as a CNA for an 'in home' healthcare company.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Most the time my size, sadly. I am working to become healthier though! Sometimes my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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favorite type books would be sci-fi fantasy (LKH can knock 50 shades out of the water... just saying... and a few other authors actually)
favorite type music...I'm pretty eclectic
favorite shows...Grey's Anatomy, Private Practice, Bones, American Idol, Criminal Minds, The Big Bang Theory, Dexter, Supernatural, How I met your mother... I can be very content with the channel on sci-fi all day.

Now, regarding the books, movies, music, etc.... I don't feel that for two people to mesh well together, as a couple, their tastes has to be the same.... but, there does need to be some common ground. Music, books, movies, coffee are things I enjoy, it just wouldn't work out with someone if they got mad every time I read a book or absolutely hated everything I watched or listened to. I like to share those things... .. and if you can't at least tolerate the smell of coffee.. there may be issues.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(not counting the basics of food, water, sleep, shelter, and friends/family) coffee, books, music, a good pair of sneakers and a pair of slip on shoes, toilet paper.
yep, I said it. I hate the thought of running out of coffee or toilet paper
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I should be/am doing with my life...my future. Lately my thoughts are mostly of school and the health of my parents.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
it varies from week to week really
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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On here, right now? . . . I'm a 38 year old grandma to a beautiful baby boy
You should message me if
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... if you want to get to know me and aren't afraid to lead for awhile. Also, I take meeting people seriously and it takes a lot for me to get up the nerve to do it....if you're still in the enjoyment of playing the field on a regular basis( aka not really looking for something serious relationship wise) and only communicating with someone after meetups to get laid- please pass me by as I'm not that girl. Im not the threesome, booty call, one nighter kind of girl. I do believe everyone deserves at least a second chance, but I do draw the line somewhere. I feel regular communication is important, and something that a person should want to do if they're interested.

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