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jenergy11

50 / F / Straight / Single

Los Altos, California

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:52am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Three perfect experiences
The sun sparkles on the blue ocean. Palm trees murmur and sway, the fresh salty air feels soft on our skin, and gulls squawk overhead. We spray each other well with sunscreen, pull on our snorkel gear, and step into the warm, calm ocean. Amazing colorful fish dart and play. Swimming close together, I point out a ray lying in a sandy patch of ocean floor and you pretend to be a shark and begin to nibble on my shoulder.

I take a sip of silky sweet Sauternes and look at you appraisingly. “That’s what you think the key point was?” I ask over the clink of cutlery and babble of voices. “Interesting. Say more.” We’re sitting at the bar of our favorite restaurant, having just seen a play in our season ticket series. You pause to flag down the bartender to place our order for dessert and then turn to me deep in thought. “There were three or four things that struck me,” you begin. I settle in for a lively discussion of analysis and opinions.

Majestic redwoods flank the road and the hill steepens slightly as I lift out of the saddle to make it over the crest. 25 miles into the ride, my legs are aching pleasantly and my face is flushed with exertion. I pull over to the side of the road and turn to watch as the other cyclists with us join me one by one. You are riding sweep, making sure everyone is OK and no one has to be last. Your kind smile reassures a less experienced rider, and your eyes sparkle as I launch into an enthusiastic description of the next leg of the route.
What I’m doing with my life
Raising my daughter, connecting, living as much in the moment as I can. Having recently left the high tech industry to start my own business, I am in a hugely exciting phase of my life!
I’m really good at
Being friendly and enthusiastic.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and my positive energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Guns, Germs and Steel, NurtureShock, A Prayer for Owen Meany; Big, Princess Bride, Bringing Up Baby; Seinfeld, Star Trek TNG; almost any live theater; Lyle Lovett, Elvis Costello, vocal jazz.
The six things I could never do without
My daughter
Good books to read
New things to learn
Close friendships
Nature
Flannel sheets
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the changes I'm making in my life, romantically and professionally, to enable me to give of myself wholly and express myself fully.
On a typical Friday night I am
with luck, at the theater or a nice restaurant with friends. Sometimes I'm heading out of town with my daughter to the beach or the mountains. But usually, I'm curled up on the sofa with a book and nice glass of port. Join me?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I got suspended from high school for a day.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 44–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
eventually down the road you're interested in a committed relationship, you find the idea of parenting a young child appealing, and you want to have fun getting there.