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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

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5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Judaism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
My self-summary
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After being on this site for a while, I have realized that finding a connection with another person isn't about WHAT we do, but HOW we do it. Reading about my hobbies won't tell you anything about how we will get along. I am not looking for pen pals. Although I do enjoy long discussions about everything under the sun, I feel empty when at the end of it all in am sitting alone in front of my computer. So if you are interested in chatting, LET'S MEET UP. YEAH, like in the flesh. I have found that I learn more about people in the first two minutes of an encounter than in hours of internet small talk. If this approach suits you, send me a message about when and where we can meet up.

With that said, here is the WHAT: runner, calligrapher, drawer, listener, lifelong learner.

And more importantly the HOW: freely, silly, anti-conformist, I fully commit & give 100% to everything I do (which I've found results in "talent"), open-minded, self-critical, overachiever, detail-oriented, independent.
What I’m doing with my life
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After working in the pharmaceutical industry for a year after graduating from college, I realized I hated it, so I quit, moved back to Oregon from Massachusetts, and decided to go back to school to become a nurse [in progress...].
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My most valuable quality is that I am an impeccable listener. In my opinion, listening is seriously underrated in American culture... But that's a conversation for another time.
The first things people usually notice about me
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1. My height... I'm tall, I know. 2. My smile. (I hope, haha.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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TV: Nurse Jackie, Shameless, Breaking Bad, Jamie Oliver's Food Revolution, The Bachelor/ette (Yes, the epitome of eclectic tastes.)

Books: The Thorn Birds, Food Politics, Farewell to Arms, Mountains Beyond Mountains

Music: My Pandora stations include Disney, Flo Rida, Regina Spektor, Coldplay, Frank Sinatra, Jack Johnson, Lonely Island, LMFAO, and Claude Debussy. 'nuff said.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A blanket for snuggling.
My journal for doodling and writing.
Freshly cut grass for smelling and dancing around barefoot.
Music that perfectly fits my mood for the moment.
Post-it notes for lists... Lots and lots of lists.
Moments during intense downpours when the sun shines through the clouds.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually having a hot date with my pillow.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Once I was in love.
You should message me if
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To be honest, I'm not sure exactly what I'm looking for, but I certainly know what I'm not looking for. So, you should NOT message me if...
-you use "words" like "u" and "r"
-you want to "trade pix" (I won't, I guarantee it)
-you run out of things to say beyond "how are you"
-you feel the need to call me demeaning names, like "baby," "sweetheart," "cutie," etc.

(And if your first response to this section was, "I have a brilliant idea! I'll write a message like, 'hey baby how r u u so sexy letz trade pics,' " you should know that I will not be impressed... A little bit more originality would be nice. Just a suggestion.)