Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


30 F Hoboken, NJ

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 19
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a writer but REALLY hate writing about myself, so here's just a list of some stuff.

- I'm a huge nerd and tech geek.
- I will prioritize watching a Dallas Cowboys game over almost anything.
- I've never had a cavity.
- He wasn't a player, but my dad has a Stanley Cup ring.
- I was a jazz major in my undergrad. Wasn't very good at it.
- I'm in a karaoke league. Serious shit.
- Unrelated to the league, millions of people have heard me sing. They don't know it was me, but that's besides the point.
- Several years ago I lost 85 pounds.
- I do bikram yoga about 3 times a week but not for that whole mind/body/spiritual stuff.
- I love history and architecture. And historic architecture. Like a lot.
- I aspire to write a chick lit novel just to say I'm published. However, I've aspired to this for many years now and I still haven't bothered.
- I was the captain of the varsity spelling team in high school.
- I'm scared to death of flying, but do it nonetheless because I like to travel.
- Microsoft>Apple. Don't hate.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I recently spent a month in Argentina and it was maybe the best experience of my life. It made me come back and look at the US completely differently and I'm a little sad about being back. I've never quite been into the entertainment culture and money flaunting that's so pervasive here. Rather I'm more interested in local history and the historical architecture that we pass by every day and most people don't notice, much less appreciate. In Argentina, it seemed like many more people did care about those things--and they cared much more deeply about their relationships with friends and family. It was quite the breath of fresh air after living here for a while.

I'm fairly active in the Couchsurfing community and think it's interesting to meet so many people from so many places, most of them willing to generously open up their homes or spend time with visitors. I'm not able to travel so much so it's been a great way to learn about other cultures and experiences. It's made me want to move to Europe for a while.

And on a less introspective note, I can karaoke the hell out of some Alanis Morrisette and I write for a digital ad agency, which isn't lost on me that it promotes all the things that irritate me about the US. But I'm also super interested in technology, experience design, and programming so it fulfills those interests.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being sarcastic. Singing. Writing. Organizing. Scrabble. Giving NYC history tours.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read more technology blogs and news than books, but as far as books go I like Gladwell and those kinds of social science and psychology books. As for blogs, I like to read The Verge, Gizmodo, Engadget, Wired, etc.

Movies: The Sandlot, pretty much any chick flick that exists (what?), Shawshank Redemption, Sex, Lies and Videotape, Killer Klowns from Outer Space, Breakfast Club, The Social Network, Hackers

TV: Homeland, Dexter, American Horror Story, Mad Men, Walking Dead, Shark Tank, anything on the History Channel, A&E or Investigational Discovery.

Music: Since I sing, I lean toward my style which is that whole singer/songwriter/blues and jazz-influenced pop/rock. Jason Mraz, John Mayer, Adele, Ingrid Michaelson, Schuyler Fisk, Citizen Cope, Gabe Dixon, James Morrison, Imogen Heap.

Food: I'm not picky
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends. My family. Love. Laughter. Warm fuzzy butterflies and crap like that ... Yeah, kidding.

Internet. My computer. My two cats. Toothbrush. Mascara. And probably deodorant or something so I don't stink.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Computers. I really should have been a programmer.

Writing and how I should blog more.

Next week's karaoke league theme.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out or not. I generally only go OUT out once a week. That being said, I live in Hoboken now and bars are unavoidable. Luckily, I haven't completely adapted to the lifestyle and am not a heavy drinker. I didn't even throw up on St. Patrick's Day. It's something I'm pretty proud of.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I played with Barbies until I was 13 or 14. I would tell you my excuse for this, except I'm not sure there's one good enough.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can compose an email that doesn't contain spelling errors. You can teach me to play guitar or how to code a website better than the hacky, crap-ass way I do it now. You're from another country, or you travel a lot.