I am a really cool person who is opinionated and not shy. No topic is off limits for me.

I realize that I have this list, but I want to be clear in what I am looking for in a dating relationship.
These are mandatory!
1. Must not have kids or want kids. (humanoid kind)
2. Must like cats as I have a kitty that is a huge flirt.
3. Must not despise hockey, I am a huge Stars fan.
4. Must be financially stable.
5. Must not be married or in a relationship!

I just got out of a 15 year relationship and am not looking to jump back into a serious relationship. I am looking to see what is out there and try some new things. I am not looking for a fuck buddy or a friends with benefits.

Looking for cultural activities to do this year. My new years resolution is to attend at least one activity per month. Come join me.

I am really good at making people laugh and cooking. One of my friends recently commented on my ability to make martinis.

Looks probably my hair or eyes, they are really awesome. =P But other wise how loud and cool I am.

Well, I will read anything that comes under my nose. Lately I've been reading paranormal books. I do not get zombies.
I tend to watch dramas on tv. I like to have the tv on all the time and have some either TLC, History, Discovery, etc on just for background noise.
I listen to rock and roll, top 40s, and alternative music. Radio stations Jack, Mix, 93.3, and Edge.
I love Mexican and Italian food. But I cannot eat dairy products.

1. Showers
2. A good book
3. Coke (as in the beverage)
4. Hockey
5. Sophie (my kitty)
6. Radio

food and what to do

I usually spend it with friends: hanging out, watching movies, food, etc.

It only took me a month ish to figure out what to put here ;) I hate being called any thing related to a food item: sugar, honey, dumpling, etc.

Apparently I need to be very clear about some things. I am not trying to be snarky or bitchy about the next few statements. Do not message me if you cannot comply with my list of 5 in the self summary. Yes, I realize that you may have a child and it doesn't live you full time, but I am a selfish creature and I do not want to share attention. Do not contact if you are married or separated, or even going through a divorce. Again I do not want to deal with that emotional shit. I have been through a divorce and I have dealt with my emotions and other shit that goes along with that.
I realize that I have a message that states that I reply selectively. You should know that I get a lot of messages that says wanna fuck, is insulting, or has really horrible grammar / spelling. I find it very difficult to respond to thoses types of messages. If you send me a nice message I most likely respond unless I notice that you have kids or hate cats.