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48 Atlanta, GA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:31am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Outgoing, prone to flirting, funny, cute. Snarky, but sweet. Smart, but not a smart-ass. I like to dance in elevators. I recycle and compost. I want to take up bee-keeping. Looking for companionship, conversation, and chemistry...not necessarily in that order.
What I’m doing with my life
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Teaching people about sustainability, playing the fiddle, growing things, listening to great music, blogging, hanging out in the Tri-Cities (East Point, Hapeville, College Park).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing; networking; managing programs, projects and volunteers; growing things; making kimchi; playing by ear.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm outgoing, so I suppose my personality. :) My eyes. My sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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So many, so little time.
Music: Gillian Welch/Dave Rawlings; Matthew Sweet; R.E.M.; old Elton John (pre-1980's); Hole; Nirvana; Mozart; Vivaldi; Beethoven; Gypsy Kings; Buena Vista Social Club; Stevie Ray Vaughan; Elmore James; Annie Lennox; Kelly Hogan; Alabama Shakes; B-52s; The Choir; TVontheRadio; AKUS; Lyle Lovett; The Haints; Old Time Music in general; Americana; Blues; R&B; so much more.

Movies: Lars and the Real Girl; V for Vendetta; Fargo; Raising Arizona; The Gods Must Be Crazy; Napoleon Dynamite; Eastern Promises; History of Violence; Waitress.

Books: So Much Pretty; Just Kids; Drop City; Fair & Tender Ladies; On Agate Hill; The Cove; Jesus' Son; all of Jane Austin's books; The Lovely Bones; The Double Bind; Nance Van Winckle's short story collections and poetry; Rick Bass's short stories; Anais Nin's Diaries; The Book Thief; City of Thieves; The Rise & Fall of the Third Reich (hard to read, but necessary, I believe); The World Without Us; books about sustainability/water policy, etc.

Food: Indian; Greek; Thai; Italian; Korean, healthy Soul Food (I don't eat meat, but I do eat fish); a good Malbec, a nice red ale, all vegetables except raw beets. And no olives, please.

Shows: Modern Family; Nashville; Inspector Morse Mysteries, New Tricks, Masterpiece Theatre, pretty much anything on PBS.

News: NPR, Huffington Post, Slate, Salon, the AJC (have to keep up with some local stuff); Deutsche Welle.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
College radio (#SaveWRAS), yogurt, travel, English Breakfast tea, my violin, my cat.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sustainability, music, a bit of romance. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's no such thing as a typical Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a thing for cowboys.
You should message me if
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you are laid-back, smart, and a nice guy. You're interested in getting together for dinner, a walk on the Beltline, maybe a few hours hanging out/talking in a coffee shop. Let's keep it casual. :)