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jerborder

30 M Huntington Beach, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jul 8
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have no idea how to fill these out but here it goes.
My name is Jeremy, I am fairly laid back, and like to hang out with friends at home about as much as I like going out.
I got my B.S.degree in computer engineering and computer science from USC.
I own my own home and have found it interesting dealing with all the challenges involved therein.
I am a fairly large movie buff I worked at a studio for a while and got a great deal on movies so i built up quite a collection. I enjoy playing video games but primarily to pass time more than anything else. I am also an avid reader but don't read nearly as much as I used to.
I enjoy most outdoor activities as an amateur. The only sport I played competitively is swimming but I don't compete these days.
Other than that feel free to ask me anything.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am working as a computer programmer, attending/helping out at my church, and attempting to figure out how to better live by God's plan for my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Competitive Swimming, cooking, most Wii games, giving amateur massages, procrastinating, and I'll fill the rest of this in later. ( ;
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really have no idea. I haven't ever heard anything consistent. It really depends what we are doing when we meet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
Most things by Dean Koonz, Night Angel trilogy, Dresden series, or just about any interesting fiction. Harry Potter Series, Hunger Games series. The Sigma Novels by James Rollins.
Movies:
I tend to prefer comedies or action movies as I feel they have a better replay value. Though I do enjoy a well done drama or horror flick as well (not a gorefest something that builds the atmosphere and suspense).
Shows:
I dont really watch network TV anymore but enjoy watching other station retuns or my own copies of the seasons for: how I met your mother, Big Bang theory, fringe(its over now but I liked most of it), friends, and many others.
Music:
Really it just depends on the song I like a good strong beat with lyrics that are fun.
Some bands I particularly enjoy are Linkin Park (older stuff the latest isn't that great) and Rise Against. Other than those its usually just a mix of stuff I downloaded after hearing it on the radio.
Food:
I'm open to trying just about anything once, don't really care for Sushi or Vegan/vegitarian fare though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The essentials (food, water, clothing, shelter, air, God, etc)
Smart phone (how did we live without the internet at our fingertips)
Some form of water based recreation (swimming, hot tubbing, snowboarding, wakeboarding, etc)
My car
Family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I am still single. No seriously it used to be a self pity thing but now it's an attempt to understand what God wants me to learn before he thinks I am ready to meet that special someone.
Also what does it mean when someone's profile says they are agnostic and serious about it? To my understanding Agnostic belief is that there may or may not be a deity. Being serious about this strikes me as if someone said, "I don't know the answer to that question and I am serious about that lack of knowledge". Maybe it just doesn't mesh with the way my brain works.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately I have been going to a friends house where we have dinner hit the jacuzzi for a bit then watch a movie most nights. Sometimes we change it up a bit but that's the normal Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I recently went on a church retreat and felt that I needed to refine my dating practices as a result. I now have three rules of dating:
1.) I am not having sex until I get married.
2.) I don't want to kiss until we have gone out on at least four dates or for one month after we met in person.
3.) I don't want to do anything more than kiss until I am married.
I have reasons for all of these and am happy to discuss them if you would like but will not change my stance and would like you to actively hold me to the second two if we do go out as they are newer convictions.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I suppose I should list my deal breakers here. I am looking to date to find the woman I want to marry so would prefer if someone has either the same outlook on dating or at least feels that they are open to getting married within a year or two. Along that line when I get married I want someone that shares my faith and to that end am not willing to date anyone that is not only a Christian but is also working to live by their faith, feel free to ask me to clarify if you would like.
Also I'm fine trading messages for while but I figure you have to meet someone to really get to know them. So if I ask to meet in person and you think its too soon just tell me and I don't mind, I just prefer to meet and see if we actually have any chemistry sooner rather than later.

Lastly if you notice an inconsistency about the way I answered some of the questions in the Q&A there is a reason I just don't feel this is the right spot to address it (if you know what I am talking about you probably know why). If you are curious feel free to ask me.