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43 Sioux Falls, SD Man


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  • Ages 35–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I'm a bear approaching middle-age who is more interested in staying home most nights than hitting the bar. I have a lot of acquaintances and a few friends. I guess I'm a sensitive person who is quite protective of my feelings so I don't mix much locally. I'm pretty dull by gay standards since I don't get into current pop culture too much. I'm more interested in History, visiting museums and monuments, going on quick road trips and shooting pix wherever something catches my eye.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm just living from day to day. I'm trying to let go of the whole philosophical "Why am I here?" thing and just be in the moment. There isn't much structure or a set schedule to my daily routine. I mostly am focusing on learning a little cooking, diving into photography (and photogrammetry too - please do contact me if you knew what that meant) with a vengeance and reading whatever crosses the RSS feeds online.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Unfortunately, I have a rapier sharp wit when I get upset or feel threatened. One of these days my mouth is gonna get me creamed. Some of my friends would say that I have a way with words when I'm inspired. Others think that I have a good eye for photography. I personally think I'm just a sensitive guy hiding behind a smartass facade sometimes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't have the best fashion sense for my body type. It's been a long time since I set foot inside a clothing store that wasn't Goodwill or Savers. I'm not a slob but my look is probably badly out of date and doesn't usually flatter me. Right now, all that matters to me is my clothes are clean and comfortable even if a bit dated. I know, I know, I need to turn in my pink card for this one.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't read books so much like I used to. I enjoy a good thriller/horror movie. I'm not a slasher flick whore, but more into the type of movies where there is an honest try at a good scare via tension. I love documentaries about Antiquity, Art & Architecture and nearly any facet of History. I enjoy SciFi too. I mostly lean in the Classical Music direction. I don't know that much about it, but I just listen on a casual basis and grab whatever I like. Throw in a little New Wave and Pop and you pretty much have my listening list. My iTunes library literally starts with ABBA and ends with Xanadu (oh God I just dated myself). As for food, well you will never, ever meet anyone who's a junk-food junkie like me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My two cats Bailey & Peaches, Coca Cola, my family, my iPhone and the Internet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I need to let go of a lot of the issues about what motivates people. I just need to accept that I can't fix the world and all of its problems. I'm just finally breaking myself of the habit of trying to offer up unsolicited advice to friends and family when they complain about things that are wrong. That's the problem with me--I care too much about things that are out of my control sometimes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Pretty much I'm home on Friday nights. I'm a documentary fiend and have been hoarding stuff off my TiVo and elsewhere for years. I pretty much sit at the Mac with a few "chat" tabs open while I fire up iTunes and sit and organize my terabytes of movies and documentaries. I might very well have at least as many or more documentaries than the Public Library.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's pretty simple--I have AIDS. Yeah, thats what I said. I'm healthy and will live a long time but with my pet virus comes a lot of social/sexual complications that makes everyone uncomfortable. After nine years of living openly with it you'd think I'd have a pretty thick skin but it still humiliates me deeply when someone tells me they're sorry and cuts off all contact with me.
You should message me if
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You're into History especially. History geeks trip me out big time! I'm a guarded guy at first. I'll always answer anything you ask of me honestly but I'm a bit protective of myself with my emotions until I feel safe.

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