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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 45-65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:54pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Other and laughing about it
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a polyamorous man seeking one more woman or couple, who would like to sail around the world on my 45' sailboat, currently docked in Alameda starting in 2016. Please note I am only interested in poly/open/non-monogamous relationships and would like to find play partners too.
I have started to dabble at painting and you can view some of my paintings at
I love to capture light and colors and "see" some very interesting sunsets.

I love to cook & bake, read anything, sailing, drum circle, driving, walks on the beach, sunrise, sunset, painting, travel, good conversations with friends, being a race marshal for cars and motorcycles, photography.
I am a native of California, and grew up in the central valley, moved to the bay area 20 years ago.

I have a wonderful loving and committed relationship with Stillyungatthart and looking for women who can share life and love.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a computer geek who paints, or an artist who does computer stuff to eat.
I am slowly outfitting this sailboat and will start a circumnavigation the summer of 2016.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing things, if it turns on - I can fix it.
I also love to cook & bake.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile.
I am always a happy person, and try and make others smile.
I may be the first truly happy person you have met, but that is what people who have met me say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like to read mysteries.
The Star Wars movies will always have top billing.
I love to go to concerts, coming up is the Bridge School benefit.
I love to cook anything, just did a great stew for the drum circle potluck.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My boat and the oceans to sail on.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The upcoming circumnavigation I am planning to start summer of 2016.
How to solve world pollution issues.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at the yacht club socializing with friends, and then soaking nude in a warm pool, or downtown listening to music on the square.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am an adrenaline junky, and enjoy things with a bit of danger.
I am a race marshal for cars and motocycles.
I have driven race cars.
I have flown airplanes and helicopters.
I have ridden motorcycles.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like to go sailing.
Have an interest in sailing around the world on a 45 foot sail boat.
You want to know about being a race marshal.
Would like to know more about polyamory, or just want to have a nice conversation about anything.
I always enjoy meeting new people that are up for adventures.