When I have a sleep over, I stick to the Bottom
I am also HIV Positive. With that being said here
are some facts since few still think they could get it just from
Fact:A person who is infected with the virus and is on meds making
their viral load "Undetectable"(Which I am) means
they can literally bleed out in front of you and you can
slice your hand open and swim in the pool of blood, the chances of
you contracting it are still less then 1%
Fact: There are no known cases of a Poz person who is on meds,
who's viral load is "Undetectable" infecting a
Fact: An Undetectable has more to fear from you then you should
fear of them. They know what they have and have it under control.
Many walk around not even knowing they have it or any other
Fact: Some people with HIV don't tell their partner either due to
they themselves don't know, or they feel in some cases the person
wouldn't sleep with them if they knew.
Fact: Legit asked my disease control specialist, " If I am a bottom
and I am positive and my partner is not, and he isn't wearing a
condom, can he get it?" Answer "I can't say 100%,but
neither can a condom" I implore you to always be safe though
because you have no idea what he could have".
Fact: There are several different strains of HIV. So if two POZ
people got together, and person A didn't know he was POZ /wasn't on
meds, Person A could infect Person B with a new strain. Or if
person A has another STD, HIV people have a compromised immune
system, so that STD will find it far easier to live in a POZ person
then one who wasn't.
I hope this answers some questions, and I hope it helped you to
better understand. Always be safe and know your status. And if your
still reading you might be wondering why I would put this on here..
Well it's because many people don't know about it and the only way
they will is if we (POZ) people educate them.
P.S. If you message me,not reading my full profile, and once read
decide to no longer speak to me because of my status, no harm done.
But ask yourself this.. The next person you sleep with could wear a
condom and tell you he has nothing, and be lying to you. But when
the night is over, you were safe and therefore have nothing to
worry about. Or, you weren't safe and now might have a problem if
the person wasn't on the proper meds for whatever STD he has.
Knowledge is power and so is being safe.
If you take nothing else away from my education lesson at least
hold onto this:
A HIV Positive person who is "Undetectable" has more to
fear from you then you do from him.