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jesophilem

23 M Santa Clara, CA

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 21–29
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:26pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Chinese, C++

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My self-summary
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Just got back from a 6 month long backpacking trip in Asia. Adrenaline junkie. Studied Bioengineering and Math. Work in actuarial consulting. Boulderer. Snowboarder. Kitesurfer. Slackliner. Sapiosexual. INTJ. Does it bother you that my self-summary lacks a complete sentence?
What I’m doing with my life
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Thinking without words and avoiding the gym.
I’m really good at
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math, statistics, understanding abstract concepts, confusing people, causing trouble, pattern recognition, overanalyzing, playing the piano, getting lost in the wilderness, making jokes about sn2, tripping over flat surface, and turning three day backpacking trips into day hikes. Wanna try it with me? It's hella fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My accent. According to this Canadian guy, it sounds like an American who's been hanging around the English lads for too long (where do all the Americans go when they travel?!) Some think I sound Australian though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Infinite Jest, Cloud Atlas, Newsroom, La Campanella, and uni
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
New ideas, interesting occurrences, freedom, my outdoor gears, and breaking the rules.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to use my time more efficiently when I only get 24 hours a day, where my next adventure will be, the human experience, how the society works, if morality is but a social construct (but where can we find the negative control?), where everything came from, and how growing up in three different countries has shaped the way I make decisions. It would be pretty cool if there's a way to set up a parallel universe/ alternative reality and just experiment with it.

boys.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get more messages from straight guys than gay guys on a dating site. Isn't it neat that people are using OkCupid to make friends?

I got into a fight with a ladyboy in Cambodia and ended up with a terrible concussion. I guess that means I lost the fight.
You should message me if
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What's "if" doing there?

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