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jesophilem

23 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:03am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Chinese, C++

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First of all, I'm not actually in SF...

Originally from San Francisco, I'm an adventurous INTJ who works and plays in extremes. Cliff jumping? Totally down. Diving with the great white sharks? Count me in. After graduating with degrees in Math and Bioengineering, I have worked as a cardiac modeling researcher and an actuarial consultant. Not knowing if grad school or the professional life is really for me, I bought a one way ticket and left the US in March to travel

Thailand - Myanmar - Cambodia - Laos - Vietnam - Shanghai - Taiwan - Borneo - Malaysia - Singapore - Indonesia
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Exploring new places, learning new things, trying to satisfy my curiosity about this world and the underlying truth, and being inappropriate
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
math, statistics, understanding abstract concepts, confusing people, causing trouble, pattern recognition, overanalyzing, playing the piano, getting lost in the wilderness, making jokes about sn2, tripping over flat surface, and turning three day backpacking trips into day hikes. Wanna try it with me? It's hella fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I do not see in widescreen

My brittralican accent. I've been hanging out with too many Brits and Aussies
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Infinite Jest, Cloud Atlas, Newsroom, La Campanella, and uni
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
New ideas, interesting occurrences, freedom, my outdoor gears, and breaking the rules.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to use my time more efficiently when I only get 24 hours a day, where my next adventure will be, the human experience, how the society works, if morality is but a social construct, where everything came from, and how growing up in three different countries has shaped the way I make decisions. It would be pretty interesting if there's a way to set up a parallel universe/ alternative reality and just experiment with it.

boys.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get more messages from straight guys than gay guys on a dating site. Isn't it neat that people are using OkCupid to make friends?

I got into a fight with a lady boy in Cambodia and ended up with a terrible concussion. I guess that means I lost the fight.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 21–29
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you want to meet up and/or show me around the city
- you're looking for someone to snowboard, climb, dive, or backpack with
- you want to talk about your philosophy of life
- you want to exchange cool stories
- you want to go on an adventure

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