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26 F Tallahassee, FL

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I generally vacillate between the wandering mind of an intellectual and the suffering imagination of a writer. Professionally, I'm currently a doctoral candidate in sociology at Florida State University with aspirations of being a government analyst or college professor. I primarily study political sociology and social movements, and experiment with research in popular culture and identity. Creatively, I've always journaled and written fiction for fulfillment, fun, and sanity. I'm also a pianist and enjoy consuming all forms of art and music.

Regardless of the area in my life, I seek knowledge, it is my faith, it is my spirituality, and I pursue it mercilessly. This journey can be incredibly isolating, mostly self-imposed, so connecting with others and learning about life through their lived experiences and realities is integral to true understanding.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at a lot of things. But just because you're good at things doesn't mean you should do them for the rest of your life or even proselytize on all the accolades you feel deserving of and others should feel compelled to be awed by. I call this the achievement trap. I'd rather be noticed for the aspects of my life that others aren't inclined to project their ideals of success onto. What does success mean to you? What does it mean to be "good" at things?
The first things people usually notice about me
My intensity, intelligence, restraint, patience, eyes/eyelashes, and humor. I'm sure you'll let me know at some point, and when you do, if it's interesting, I'll post it here--like these:

"Jesse, you have this energy about you. It's not good or bad, but it's intense and magnetic. I don't know how to feel about it other than it makes me feel present when you're around."

"The way you wear your hair accentuates your face, gives you an almost elvish quality."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Writers: Joyce, Asimov, King, DeMille, Vonnegut, Dostoyevsky, Angelou, Krakauer, Hoffman, Ellison, Kingsolver, Woolf, Arendt

Comics: Watchmen, Light of Thy Countenance, Trillium, Sex Criminals, Death Sentence, Action Comics, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel and Faith, Serenity, Deadpool, Detective Comics

Shows: Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Smallville, Angel, Firefly, In Treatment, Being Human, Dollhouse

Movies: Lots, I prefer independent, dark, comedy, and fantastical films, but will watch anything.

Directors: Kubrick, Aronofsky, von Trier, Scorsese, Soderbergh, Smith, Tarantino

Music: Genre varies based on task and mood--God is an Astronaut, This Will Destroy You, John Coltrane, Armin van Buren, Tiesto, Pink Floyd, The Crystal Method, Clint Mansell, Duke Ellington, Mozart

Food: amazing local restaurants, doesn't matter the cuisine or fare
The six things I could never do without
The phrase "Don't make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings."

The imagination siren that calls out to me, begging for attention, distraction, and destruction.

My next adventure.

The bluebird in my heart.

Seeking, questioning, exploring.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Love comes not on feathered wings,
But on heart shaped stones painted red.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–32
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends