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jessiodh

63 Dearborn, MI Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 58–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:00pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Retired
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Are you at least 58, and live within reasonable distance of Dearborn, MI? Are you HONESTLY looking for a relationship? Do you have a picture on the site? Would you like to be in a relationship without drama/discord, where YOU matter and are valued for exactly who YOU are? If so, I am trying to find you!

While beauty is in the eye of the beholder (that's you), I am told that I am funny, intelligent, kind, thoughtful, cute, stylish, socially astute, optimistic, confident, competent and reliable. I love to laugh and have fun, definitely have an upbeat sense of humor. Let's face it, funny is the best ice breaker in the world.

I am 5' 1, size 10 petite, as comfortable in formal wear as in jeans and a sweater. I look a decade younger than I am (just lucky), and my attitude and technological know how match. So if you are a scammer you do not want to contact me - trust me.

Happy to be out and about on a date doing fun things or at home cooking, or watching a movie, talking and laughing. I need a balance of both to be happy. While all above are not unique, my love of peace/harmony and determination to live that way are. People seem to be drawn to me because I am loyal, wise, optimistic, helpful, rock steady, understanding and empathetic.

Not looking for "any" relationship, I value OUR happiness. If we make a connection, keeping the specialness as a central part of our lives requires that we respect each other, first and always. Drama and upset are simply not how I live. BTW I treat everyone with dignity and respect -- it is the only way I know how to live.

I am blessed with all the worldly goods I need and most of what I ever wanted (having had a great career and now enjoying a nice retirement). So, what I am looking for has nothing to do with worldly goods, there is so much that is more important and tough to find (and certainly cannot be purchased at any price). I search for those things -- friendship, mutual emotional support, connection, love, companionship and trust.

Seeking the respect, affection and (if it is meant to be) the love of a really decent, honest, warm, funny, addiction-free, kind, loyal, intelligent and well centered regular guy! Corney sense of humor is a real bonus!! Looking for a partner to share life and love (marriage not a requirement). Rather than someone to sleep with, I think it more important to find someone worth waking up with!

My perfect man is far from "perfect." He’s made mistakes, but optimism keeps him going. He's kind and wants to be in a relationship where he is respected and cherished and he will be the same for me. He pays the love and respect given to him back with the same care and generosity of spirit in which it is given.

I am interested in your humanity, not your hairline. Here's a news flash on beauty: you may not believe yourself to be the most attractive man on earth, but it is very interesting how handsome you will be to the woman who falls in love with the whole person you are. I am holding out for THAT kind of love. In an interview with actress Joanne Woodward, during which her husband Paul Newman's "handsomeness" became a topic of discussion, Joanne said, "Sexiness wears thin after a while and beauty fades, but to be with a man who makes you laugh every day, ah -- now that's a real treat." YES!!!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Beginning to really enjoy my recent well planned retirement. I am living my life happily, positively and full of joy -- without question! So much to see and do -- so much to share!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Outstanding researcher, writer, gardener, expert in ISO quality management systems and much much more because I work at becoming better every day and am always learning.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
5' (almost) 1", size 10, twinkling blue green eyes, sharp as a tack, alive, grateful, talkative, passionate, funny and enthusiastic - with a wide range of interests and much to share with a partner.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love books, movies, music and food -- I sing in a choir and want to get back into local theater where I have a great deal of experience, performing, backstage work and directing. I appreciate too many books, movies and food to name here. However, I am happy to share all those details -- such things shared face to face are great opportunities for getting to know you over coffee or a drink when you are ready.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My coffee maker in the morning, peace and tranquility, good and healthy food, fresh cut flowers from my garden, a good laugh and all the wonderful people in my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Writing an honest narrative about who I am and the man I am looking for (easy -- here it is) -- then figuring out how you will find that narrative and pluck up the courage to contact me...(this is proving very difficult!)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeing a movie, dinner with a friend or group of friends, chillin with a glass of wine and a good book at home....life is not typical any day of the week including Fridays...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am proud of who I am, the life I have been privileged to live and how I live. I am at peace with the past. Therefore, I am an open book in sharing my life and myself.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I really dislike being negative but I want to avoid scammers and anyone's hurt feelings -- if you don't meet the basic and simple criteria found in my profile summary please pass me by. I apologize that I don't typically respond if you don't have a picture and profile on the site. I am what I say I am and not hiding. So I want to find similar honesty in a partner . That starts with a profile and picture.

Please don't contact me if you are scamming or otherwise wasting people's time. My considerable background in IT security affords me the ability to catch you and report you -- so save me the wasted time and yourself the trouble and move on.

However, please DO drop a line if you are in Michigan, AT LEAST 58, a REAL, sensible, stable, reliable man who is a regular guy, has some idea of what you want and can value a PARTNER as described here-- I know you are out there and I REALLY want to meet you!