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63 Dearborn, MI Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 58–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:01pm
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Are you at least 58, and live within reasonable distance of Dearborn, MI? Are you HONESTLY looking for a friend with whom you might want to build a relationship? Do you have a picture on the site? Would you like to be involved without drama/discord, be around someone who believes YOU matter and who will value YOU for exactly who YOU are? If so, I am trying to find you!

While beauty is in the eye of the beholder (that's you), I am told that I am funny, intelligent, kind, thoughtful, cute, stylish, socially astute, optimistic, confident, competent and reliable. I love to laugh and have fun, definitely have an upbeat sense of humor. Let's face it, funny is the best ice breaker in the world.

I am 5' 1, size 12 petite, as comfortable in formal wear as in jeans and a sweater. I look a decade younger than I am (just lucky). My attitude is ever positive (why be anything else?). BTW, My technological know how is on a professional level. So if you are a scammer you do not want to contact me - trust me.

Happy to be out and about on a date doing fun things trying new things, or at home cooking or watching a movie in great company so we can talk and laugh. I need a balance of both to be happy. While all above are not unique, my love of peace/harmony and absolute determination to live that way are. People seem to be drawn to me because I am open, loyal, wise, optimistic, helpful, rock steady, understanding and empathetic.

Not looking for "any" relationship, I value OUR happiness. If we make a connection, keeping the specialness as a central part of our lives requires that we respect each other, first and always. Drama and upset are simply not how I live. I treat everyone with dignity and respect -- it is the only way I know how to live, hope you do too.

I am blessed with all the worldly goods I need and most of what I ever wanted (having had a great career and now enjoying a nice retirement). So, what I am looking for has nothing to do with worldly goods. There is so much that is more important and tough to find (and certainly cannot be purchased at any price). I search for those things -- friendship, mutual emotional support, connection, love, companionship and trust.

I am seeking the respect, affection and (if it is meant to be) the love of a really decent, addiction free, honest, warm, funny, kind, loyal, intelligent and well centered regular guy! Corny sense of humor is a real bonus!! Looking for a partner to share life and love (marriage not a requirement). Rather than someone to sleep with, I think it more important to find someone worth waking up with! Definitely not up for "hook ups" as respect for self and others is how I live.

My perfect man is far from "perfect." He’s made mistakes, but optimism keeps him going. He's kind and wants to be in a relationship where he is respected and cherished and he will be the same for me. He pays the love and respect given to him back with the same care and generosity of spirit in which it is given.

I am interested in your humanity, not your hairline. Here's a news flash on beauty: you may not believe yourself to be the most attractive man on earth, but it is very interesting how handsome you will be to the woman who falls in love with the whole person you are. I am holding out for THAT kind of love.

In an interview with actress Joanne Woodward, during which her husband Paul Newman's "handsomeness" became a topic of discussion, Joanne said, "Sexiness wears thin after a while and beauty fades, but to be with a man who makes you laugh every day, ah -- now that's a real treat." YES!!!
What I’m doing with my life
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Really enjoy my recent, (well planned) retirement. Catching up with friends, making new ones, singing in city choir and enjoying my own time. I am living my life well, happily, positively and so full of joy I can barely believe how sweet things are! So much to see and do -- so much to share and I finally have the time to do that!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A lot of researcher, writer, gardener, my career as an international programs specialist, an IT security planner, an analyst and an ISO quality manager are some of the highlights. I am extremely well educated, well read and civilized -- with a great sense of humor. I LOVE learning and growing as a person. I honestly work at becoming better every day!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am 5' (almost) 1", size-12 petite. I have (I am told) twinkling blue green eyes. I have also been described as sharp as a tack, alive, grateful, talkative, passionate, funny and enthusiastic. I have a wide range of general, intellectual and musical interests and much to share with the right partner.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love books, movies, music and food -- I sing in a city choir and want to get back into local theater where I have a great deal of experience performing, doing backstage work and directing. I appreciate too many books, movies and food to name here. However, I am happy to share all those details over a cup of coffee or a glass of wine in a cozy place in my town or yours. Such things, shared face to face, are great opportunities for getting to know each other -- which is the point, right? While I have no problem texting, emailing or talking on the phone, I will want to meet you soon. Meeting will assure both of us that we are real people, with honorable intentions and that neither of us is wasting time on scammers.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family, my pets, good coffee, good conversation, sharing, as well as peace and tranquility in my life. I also love good and healthy food, fresh cut flowers from my garden, a good laugh and all the wonderful friends in my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether or not I can find " the one." So, I work hard on writing an honest narrative about who I am and the man I am looking for (that was easy -- here it is). The next step is much more difficult -- figuring out how you will find this narrative and pluck up the courage (and take the chance) to contact me....( Especially when I contact you first....) This is proving to be exceedingly difficult!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Now I am retired, no day of the week is typical. My activities often involve gardening, Seeing a movie, dinner with a friend or group of friends, choir rehearsals, chillin with a glass of wine and a good book at home....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am proud of who I am, the life I have been privileged to live and how I live today. I am at peace with the past and can see a great future for myself in enjoying the fruits of my labor. Therefore, I am an open book in sharing my life and myself. My hope is that I will find the man who feels the same and wants to share his life too.
You should message me if
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I really dislike being negative but I am sick of scammer attempts. I also want to avoid the possibility of unintentional hurt feelings too because although I have not met you yet, I care how you feel. So, if you don't meet the very basic and simple criteria for a match found in my profile summary, please pass me by.

I apologize that I typically do not respond if you don't have a picture and profile on the site. I am not ashamed and/or hiding. I want to find a similarly honest and up front person as a partner. That begins with your profile and picture on the site. Let's face it, you would never contact me without them.

My sincere advice is DO NOT contact me if you are scamming. My considerable background in IT security affords me the ability to catch you and report you -- so save me and yourself the wasted time and trouble -- just move on.

Please DO DROP A LINE if you are in the Detroit metro area (that is in Michigan), AT LEAST 58, you are a REAL, sensible, stable, reliable man -- yep just a regular guy. I hope you have some idea of what you want and can value a PARTNER as described here-- I know you are out there and I REALLY want to meet you!