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62 F Dearborn, MI

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:19pm
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Are you a good guy, at least 55, comfortable with who you are and honestly looking for a partner? Would you like to be in a relationship where you matter and are incredibly valued for exactly who you are??

Are you looking for a funny intelligent lady who is always learning, stylish, socially astute, optimistic, reliable and actively engaged in living a good life and being a good person?

I am a size 10, as comfortable in after 5 as in jeans and a sweater. I look a decade younger than I am (just lucky), and my attitude matches.

Not looking for "any" relationship. I value OUR happiness and peace. Keeping that aspect of our lives is possible only in a relationship in which people respect each other first in their relationship.

Values are important as a foundation don't you think? Might be wonderful to have all the things money could buy, but there is so much more that is important that money could never buy -- I am looking for those things.

Seeking the respect and affection of:
A really decent, HONEST, warm, funny, kind, loyal, intelligent and well centered guy! Looking for a partner to share life and love (marriage not a requirement). Rather than someone to sleep with, how about trying to find someone worth waking up with?

My perfect man is far from "perfect." He’s made mistakes, but optimism keeps him going. He's kind and wants to be in a relationship where he is cherished and respected. I am interested in your humanity, not your hairline. Here's a news flash on beauty anyway -- you may not think you are the most attractive man on earth but it is incredibly interesting how handsome you are to the woman who falls in love with the whole person you are.

In an interview with actress Joanne Woodward, during which her husband Paul Newman's "handsomeness" became a topic of discussion, Joanne said, "Sexiness wears thin after a while and beauty fades, but to be with a man who makes you laugh every day, ah -- now that's a real treat." I share this view!
What I’m doing with my life
Living it well, positively and full of joy -- without question!
I’m really good at
I am good at a lot of things because I love to learn and achieve.
The first things people usually notice about me
Petite - 5' (almost) 2", size 10, twinkling blue green eyes, sharp as a tack, alive, grateful and enthusiastic - with a wide range of interests.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many to name --great fodder for getting to know you conversations!
The six things I could never do without
The sound (and smell) of my coffee maker in the morning, peace and tranquility, steaks sizzling on the grill, fresh cut flowers from my garden, a good laugh and wonderful people in my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Writing an honest narrative (easy) -- then figuring out how you will find it and me...(the hardest task I have ever had in my life!)
On a typical Friday night I am
After exchanging business attire for kick back clothes, I make something yummy to eat or, if it has been a long week, pour a glass of wine and just chill at home -- I love my home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am an open book and private things are great topics for conversation when we know one another.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 57–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Please drop a line if you are REAL, sensible, stable, reliable man and can value a PARTNER.


OUR time is very precious....sad to waste it. So, if you happen to fit any of the following, I would be most grateful if you did not contact me.

If you are a scammer, (i.e., have a story about your thick accent, your stolen pictures and only think you can speak or write English well (but clearly can't) don't contact me. You are a criminal seeking to defraud lonely/stupid people with your ridiculous ruses. I don't qualify as lonely or stupid and am an analyst and internet security expert. So, contacting me gets you tracked, reported to OKC and to various US Federal crime sites gathering information about you!

If you must start your contact with asking inappropriate sexual questions or are looking for internet sex -- save it for those with zero self esteem. I happily enter the sexual part of a relationship when there is a relationship, with a real man, not an ass hiding behind a keyboard. BTW when you do this, nothing shows your lack of respect for women more clearly!!

If you are not really available (largely meaning that you are still living with your wife/ex-wife). I make no judgments about your reason for being here, but your wife (and children or grandchildren) never did anything to me -- so I don't want to be in the middle of whatever is still going on.

If you are not being real here, it is because you are not happy with who you are. That has to come to you from inside not external sources -- Involving others won't help.

Finally, I DO NOT have addiction issues of any kind. So, if you smoke, drink to excess or currently struggle with any other addictions (including extreme indebtedness, porn, drugs or gambling...) I am not for you. I have deep and abiding respect for all who have conquered such demons and would love to hear from you if fully recovered. However, if you have addictive issues, it would be impossible to maintain and provide the peace and tranquility that I value and require in my life. So, while greatly sympathetic, I am not into changing someone or trying to "save" anyone from themselves, sorry.