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jessiwhat
25 / F / bisexual / Available
Oakland, California
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 4' 9" (1.44m).
- Body Type
- A little extra
- Looking For
- New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
- Smokes
- Sometimes
- Drinks
- Sometimes
- Drugs
- Sometimes
- Religion
- Other and somewhat serious about it
- Sign
- Leo and it’s fun to think about
- Education
- Dropped out of college/university
- Job
- Other
- Income
- Rather not say
- Kids
- Doesn’t want children
- Pets
- Owns cats
- Languages
- English
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am deeper, than, and you.
My Self-Summary
I don't even know where to begin. i hate typing on the internet,
but i would like to meet new friends. i am poly,
queer...blah,blah,blah, radical, oakland...i love metal, rap.hip hip ,
experimental sounds of all kinds, and r&b. i curse a lot and
hate it when people tell me to stop. i am a ho, rootworker, needle exchange worker,
and am obsessed with my cat. i smoke and drink a fair amount, but like balance in
my life. is this 100 words yet?
just try and meet me if you like me...
just try and meet me if you like me...
What I’m doing with my life
everything that i want to do, plus some things that i don't want to
do. i am a sex
worker, who runs my own business, work at needle exchange and am a
harm
reduction counselor. i am also in school for herbalism. i stay home a lot and
get wasted regulatory. i am very spiritual, but not in the white light
kinda, creepy way.... i am trying to live the life that i always
wanted.
I’m really good at
talking too much
trying hard to understand and listen
getting inebriated
grounding myself and others
brainstorming and implementing harm reduction techniques
rootwork, spiritual house cleansing and candle work
being myself
trying hard to understand and listen
getting inebriated
grounding myself and others
brainstorming and implementing harm reduction techniques
rootwork, spiritual house cleansing and candle work
being myself
The first things people usually notice about me
is that i am 4'9", my loud voice and that i can smoke them under
the table.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
this is the " i am more heady than you" part:
i don't even know if i should indulge this, but i will, just a little...
also, please be into whatever you are into- i like learning about new stuff...
books- camus, burroughs, tea, yronwode, paschal beverly randolph, whatever the bookclub is up to, matthew wood....that's enough dammit!
movies- gummo, blue velvet, fat girl, raging bull, this american life the show, kenneth anger, let my puppet's come, cocaine fiends...ENOUGH!
music- vinyl, konono no.1, biggie, keyshia cole, lil wayne, minnie ripperton, graves at sea, khlyst, sun o))), mariah carey, every wu-tang break off you can think of...DONE!
food- hell yeah! i love to eat! i am really picky in a weird way and hate the standard copndiments like ketchup, mayo, mustard YUCK! i love bbq sauce, hot sauce, and honey. i love sushi, mexican, korean bbq, soul food, vegetarian food, I LOVE FOOD!
i don't even know if i should indulge this, but i will, just a little...
also, please be into whatever you are into- i like learning about new stuff...
books- camus, burroughs, tea, yronwode, paschal beverly randolph, whatever the bookclub is up to, matthew wood....that's enough dammit!
movies- gummo, blue velvet, fat girl, raging bull, this american life the show, kenneth anger, let my puppet's come, cocaine fiends...ENOUGH!
music- vinyl, konono no.1, biggie, keyshia cole, lil wayne, minnie ripperton, graves at sea, khlyst, sun o))), mariah carey, every wu-tang break off you can think of...DONE!
food- hell yeah! i love to eat! i am really picky in a weird way and hate the standard copndiments like ketchup, mayo, mustard YUCK! i love bbq sauce, hot sauce, and honey. i love sushi, mexican, korean bbq, soul food, vegetarian food, I LOVE FOOD!
The six things I could never do without
sex, weed, good books, my jack ball, a nice pen, notebook
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the end of the world, oppression, my family and friends, how f-ed
things are, how beautiful life is, and trying to turn my brain off.
On a typical Friday night I am
at home, working, or being dragged out into the cold by friends who
are sick of not seeing me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
i thought i already did that. i am basically an open book. (that
sounds like a lie.) i do have a couple of lovers that i am
incredibly close to, so if you can't deal with that, please move
on.
You should message me if
you want friends in the east bay, are down to get down or can
communicate your interests, want a friend, are trying hard to avoid
another long winter depression (or want someone to bitch about it
with), can deal with the fact i am a sex worker, anti-oppression
politics are important to you too, you are respectful,you are into
low femmes, you are a fellow queer, and /or if you think we would
get along.
