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jessx333

30 / F / straight / Single

Oakland, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Body Type
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Okay), Italian (Poorly), Sign_Language (Poorly)

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I am loyal, intelligent, and fiery.

My Self-Summary

There's a lot I'd like to share about myself, but there's something to be said for learning about the nuances and idiosyncrasies about a person as you're getting to know them... this online format can be tricky for me to navigate since I'm more of a "feel the vibe" kinda gal... tough to do with a Mac... or PC =)

Since I trust the judgment of my friends, I'll share what they've said about me: artist, dog lover, dance lover, music lover, paradoxical, hearts Halloween, unapologetic, naughty, chameleon, great cook, stubborn, O.A. (over achiever), incessant knuckle popper, passionate, walking contradiction, fiery, loyal, prophetic, resilient, crazy, big-hearted, straight-shooter, spicy, hopeless romantic, fearless, playful, deeply intuitive, kind, extroverted, superstitious, intelligent, reliable, jokestery-ass, chiquita pero picosa, activist, polyglot, silly, outgoing, compassionate, sassy, creative, remembers everything, explorer, spiritual, analytical, traviesa, challenging, fluidity of comprehension, exorbitant amount of Frida.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now I'm working as a bilingual school-based psychotherapist for underprivileged children and their families... it's hard, but rewarding work. The best part: everyday I get tons of hugs from adorable elementary school-aged kids; L-O-V-E IT!

I'm currently studying for my board exams, and I hope to have my own practice once I'm licensed and continue my community-based work... I need balance in all things.

My motto: Work hard, play harder, love hardest!!!

I’m really good at

painting; parallel-parking; dancing the "Thriller" choreography; memorizing random, sometimes useless, trivia-type facts; karaoke; walking quickly through crowded festivals/gatherings without bumping into anyone; Spanglish; teaching dogs random, sometimes useless, tricks; drawing on Etch-a-Sketch; reciting lines from "The Godfather," "Halloween," and "Clueless"; cooking and baking; remembering lyrics to songs i hate (and love, and hate to love); talking in front of crowds; building large, intricate, figures with legos =)

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile... I have *huge* dimples and usually it's the first thing folks who have never met me comment on... I smile big and have big dimples : ]
Now in Spanish
Mis "positos"....tengo una sonriSOTA y aveces hasta mis proprios ojos desaparecen!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

BOOKS: Time Traveler's Wife; The Prophet; Where The Wild Things Are; Nine Stories; Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs; The Female Brain; and LOTS of random other stuff.

As per movies and music, well there are just too many titles and bands/musicians to name... concert promoters and theaters should thank me for my generous contributions! I love anything from chick-flicks, to indie films, docs, mafioso flicks (fogetaboutit!) and I'm a sucker for old horror movies.

I love all types of food. Top 3: Sushi, Italian, Indian. It saddens me when I come across someone who refuses to try something new, especially when they've never tried it. Food is such a reflection of culture and tradition, and I love discovering new tastes and flavors that excite my taste buds!

The six things I could never do without

Geez, I dunno... my friends, music, my Mac, my phone, dogs, and ART!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How to get the most out of life. I try to not sweat the small stuff: yell, scream, cry, do what you gotta do and move on... live life to the fullest because you never really know how much time we've got left on this great planet of ours.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out with friends, having dinner/cocktails, hanging out and contemplating whether to go dancing or hit up the karaoke bar ;)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have strategically placed tattoos...

You should message me if

You're down to date someone to share laughs and interests with, learn new things from and teach new things to, and enjoy the simple things in life... while making room for the occasional crazy adventure too!

I'm looking for someone who knows what he wants, and isn't afraid to be open and honest about it. Someone understanding, compassionate, and grounded, but who can be spontaneous and a little crazy from time to time too!

NOTE: Laughter is a must, so jokes and a quick wit will always win big points.

Basically, I'm hoping to find a connection with possibility and potential...