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jest1960

53 / M / Straight / Available

Ypsilanti, Michigan

His Details

Last Online
Today – 3:52pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm going to put this out there first and foremost...I am married but in an open, polyamorous relationship. I am free to see other people. My wife knows about my profile here and is very supportive of everything I do here. With that being said and I haven't scared you off yet....

I am looking for someone to spend some quality time with. I have a very broad range of interests. I like most sports, biking and working out. I enjoy most types of music but not much into country.

If you are interested in exploring the possibility of a serious, long-term relationship or just want to be friends and have someone to hang out with, take a chance and send me a message. You truly have nothing to lose and maybe a lot to gain!
What I’m doing with my life
I try living life to its fullest. I really value family and spending time with family whenever posssible. I try to balance work, family and extracurricular activity the best I can.
I’m really good at
Calligraphy. I have been a self-taught calligrapher for nearly 30 years.
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually that I don't look or act my age. I have been told on occasions that I have a nice butt!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh boy...I don't read much but when I do it would be something probably by Dean Koontz, Tom Clancy, Stephen King, John Grisham...mostly mystery/crime drama and stuff like that.

I like just about any type of movie, anything from the old spaghetti westerns to sci-fi to comedy. And yes, I've even been known to cry through a chick flick!

My taste of music varies greatly. I listen to just about anything except real heavy rap and very little country. Classical, rock, pop, classic rock, hip-hop, jazz, etc.

I tend to stick to the more traditional American foods. I can't turn down a great steak and potatoes meal. I absolutely love seafood. You can't go wrong with a good pasta or Mexican dish either. I consider myself a pretty decent cook and given the right ingredients can whip up a pretty mean chili!
The six things I could never do without
My family
My health
My iPad/iPhone
My job
My pets
Great friends!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time wondering why women find it difficult to date or even chat with a married man that is in an open, polyamorous relationship when men seem to find it a challenge to date a married woman.
On a typical Friday night I am
My Friday nights are pretty random. It depends on my mood and whether or not I have to work the next morning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I put it on here it wouldn't be private any more...you'll have to ask me that in person!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
If you are looking for a great friend!

If you are comfortable with being with someone in an polyamorous/open marriage.

If anything in my profile seems to interest you or you just want to get to know me.