First and foremost I am an honest guy. As such, I must tell you that I am disabled and in a wheelchair. I have updated my profile a few times trying to convince those who may pass on me because of this why they shouldn't. Basically I have tried to explain how "normal" I am. I have figured out two things about doing that. 1) I am tired of doing it, and that is ok because 2) It doesn't matter what I do, or what I have accomplished because you are either the kind of person that can look passed it or you aren't. Hopefully you will judge me based on everything else I put here because in general, I am pretty awesome and you should know me.
My friends consider me (and I tend to agree), charismatic, surprisingly charming, intelligent, caring, loyal and trustworthy. As I write that a thought occurs to me. Who doesn't put this on their profile? I mean who's profile says. "I am a real jerk and I am only on here for one thing." Nevertheless, all these things about me are true, I also love to make people laugh but I try not to be overbearing about it. I believe laughter is the one activity that bonds people quicker than any other. The times you laugh with someone are the times we remember the most.
Think about it, when was the last time a guy you were attracted to made you laugh all night and you didn't want to see him again?
I work hard, I have two jobs and I am a great father. My son has a mom and she does a good job so that isnt what we are talking about here. I have time to date and I would like to find someone to do that with. I like all the guy stuff you have seen on a thousand profiles. However, I also like musical theater and I am learning to play the piano. I am also romantic enough to text you in the middle of a tough work day just to tell you I am thinking of you. You may be thinking "what a well rounded guy!" I know right!!!
Obviously, attraction and chemistry are important, but other than that my only requirements are that you be a nice person. I don't care how much you make or what your job(s) is. We all come from different backgrounds, so we all define success differently.
I am sorry that my profile is so long, but I also know that women, unlike most men, actually take the time to read these. So, if you made it to the bottom, maybe you will go a little further and let me know you like me. If not, I am sorry I wish I could have done more but at least I have a nice smile right?
Thanks for reading and no matter what happens to you out there in the dating world, remember that this stuff is supposed to be fun!