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jestep

39 M Anaheim, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 27–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
May 27
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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“ I am a secure. positive, intelligent, hard working guy. I am the father of a brilliant superstar of an 8 year old whom I am so proud of. I have a good sense of humor and it makes me feel great to make you laugh. I just moved back to the OC after a short time away and now that I almost have my so called "house" in order after the move, I am looking for an amazing woman to spend time with.

What you get with me is a caring and supportive guy with a soft side but I also like to be the man in the relationship. I love texting you in the middle of a tough work day (I am looking at you Monday!) just to let you know that I am going to be there when it is over. I also like to get that text by the way! I listen and best of all, I remember things you tell me. I have never, not once forgotten an anniversary or holiday. If we are out window shopping and you point something out, it may be a year later but you will be unwrapping it (or taking it out of a bag because wrapping gifts is not my strong suit) sometime in the future. Inside of a relationship, I will do anything for you, while respecting your space and independence.

I enjoy a variety of activities from travel to sports. I also love the arts and musical theater ) PSA :Go support the arts! It is such an important part of a healthy community. I also love to stay in and cook together and watch movies. Please note, when I say "cook together", that doesn't mean I am good at it but, I think it is fun and I want to learn. That is the first step right?

I am not high maintenance or materialistic but I do have a couple of must haves and here they are:

Have or make time for dating - This one is tough because I don't want to come off as needing attention all the time. I have a kid and two jobs. I have plenty going on but I am also making a commitment to my personal life which, I view as just as important, maybe more so than my professional life. We are all busy but, if you have that many obstacles to getting to know someone, maybe now isn't the right time.

Please, and I can not stress this enough, be over your past relationships. - I am all for your right to date multiple people at once if that is your bag, but if you have that guy that you just can't seem to do without, for whatever reason, you aren't the girl for me. I am a really good guy and I think I deserve a fighting chance to win your affection and that won't happen if you are stuck on someone else right? I am not picking on you ladies. I have guy friends who do this also, and I tell them the same thing. Obviously, physical attraction and chemistry are important but they are also subjective.

Now for the part where I tell you the one, and only thing that may make you turn the page on me no questions asked. I am disabled. I am not paralyzed and I do not have mental issues (for the lack of a better word) of any kind. I simply can not stand up. You may be disappointed that I waited this long in my profile to reveal this information. I thought about where to put it and then one of my many great friends made it clear what I should do. She said. "if you believe your disability is the most important characteristic about you, if it defines who you are, then put it at the top. Otherwise, say what you need to say first." Great advice right? I am not ashamed of this. I know who I am and what I am about. If this is a reason to stop reading, I understand. but I hope you will send me an email and give me a chance first, and then decide. You will be glad you did.

I hope you will use one of the buttons to the left to let me know you are interested and I will do the same. Have a great day and best wishes. ”
The first things people usually notice about me
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Forgetting the obvious for a moment, my eyes and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Too many but I will say that I like classic books and music. I am currently collecting the 100 greatest novels ever written to pass down to my Son when he is old enough.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My little boy
My Family
My Friends
Motivation
Education
Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why online dating is so popular. and would people seem more normal to us if online dating did not exist.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You mean I have to tell you more things?? Fine..

The number one playlist on my Spotify player is the soundtrack from the show "The Wonder Years". That music is fantastic.
You should message me if
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You appreciate a nice guy and understand that there is no pressure. I just want to meet a nice girl and see where it goes.