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27 Raleigh, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 17
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from space camp
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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I dunno about you guys, but even though I'm in my late twenties, I'm still just a kid at heart trying to find my best friend. No seriously, I've been looking around for her for hours. We seem to have gotten separated. Last seen wearing a band tee, fly ass kicks, has a few piercings, some wicked sarcasm, was listening to that crazy computer music them kids listen to now-a-days, crazy cat lady tendencies. Or is that you?

I take pleasure in the city life, campfires, and the beach, but at the end of the day I much prefer the comfort of my own home. Because fuck pants.

I enjoy people watching, stargazing, philosophizing, and the intermittent hypothetical situations. Like if you're in a war, instead of throwing a hand grenade at someone, throw one of those little baby pumpkins. Maybe it'll make everyone think of how crazy war is, and while they're thinking, you can throw a real grenade at them.

Believe it or not I love silence and the peace of mind it brings as much as I love the loudness of live music. Can't have harmony without a little discord.

During the week I work for RTI International, an independent/nonprofit organization, and I do research/data collection in the fields of education, science, technology, and health. But to be perfectly honest I have no idea what I want to be when I grow up. So, for now, I'm doing what I can to make ends meet. Like "dancing", if you catch my drift. Hey, look, don't judge me. I gotta do what I gotta do and Jesus gave me this body for a reason. I will fully take advantage of this precious gift.

I'm originally from Hershey, Pennsylvania. I was baptised in a holy fountain of chocolate. I moved down here to North Carolina about 3 years ago and I live a quiet and comfortable life with my art, music, internet, and video games. By quiet and comfortable I mean I go outside and yell at my neighbors through a megaphone while in my boxers about that damn rap music they keep playing at an alarmingly high volume. Sometimes I wonder how old I really am.

I've been a Music Producer for 11 years now. You could say that music is pretty important to me (who would have thought?) and my taste ranges from Electronic to Classical. The tracks that I write reflect that pretty heavily.

I really love art, I have an appreciation for design and I've happily invested a decade of my life to working with Fractals and Photoshop. I would really like to get back into school for the Visual Arts (think 3D Modeling, Texturing, Lighting, and Video/Photo Editing).

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What I’m doing with my life
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My life is pretty low-key, to be honest. I'm not exactly one for grandiose things. I'm not plain, I just try to be uncomplicated, and simple. I work a decent job and on occasion I like to party with some of my closest friends. I prefer the intimacy of small groups that know each other well.

Not really into the bar scene, but I make exceptions. My speed is more like having a few drinks at home, listening to music, watching bad movies, playing video games and/or having conversations that derail into absurdities that make you forget what you were even talking about in the first place.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have an attention to detail, and I pick up on a lot of subtleties. The small things. Imperfections. I'm resourceful. I utilize both sides of my brain fairly well. Some might say I'm empathetic, and an active listener. I'm a jack of all trades. I'm also a little more sentimental and emotionally intuitive than a lot of other men.

I'm also very passionate about putting rap lyrics into Google Translator, and pop-up books. Never, ever look at a pop-up book while driving, though. Actually, you shouldn't be reading anything in a car, except for signs. Keep your eyes on the road! You'll injure someone. And if you're reading this right now, in your car, shame on you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Swing, Classical, Trance, Drum & Bass, Japanese/UK Hip-Hop, Dubstep, Trap, Post-Punk, Pop, Glitch Hop, Breaks, Post-Rock, Alt-Rock, Jazz, Prog Rock, Indie, Industrial, Ambient, EBM, J-Pop, Trip-Hop, Metal, Chiptune

Reading: Anything on psychology, philosophy, art and creative expression, music production, sociology, mythology, science and science fiction, fantasy, Internet/Wikipedia articles, and Reddit.

Shows: Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, Dexter, The Office, True Blood, Breaking Bad, 24, Arrow, Parks & Rec, Vikings, The Pretender, MST3k, Once Upon a Time, The Borgias, Quite Interesting, Bobs Burgers, Aqua Teen, MXC, Tim & Eric AWEOSME SHOW GREAT JOB, M*A*S*H, Person of Interest, Hannibal, Firefly, The Wire, Lost, Fringe, It's Always Sunny, Seinfeld, Archer, Metalocalypse

Video Games: Instead of listing all of the games I've played, I'll just list the studios who's work I've fallen in love with over the years -- Valve, Blizzard, Riot, Bethesda, ArenaNet, Double Fine Productions, Mythic Entertainment, Runic Games, Square-Enix, Gearbox Software, BioWare, Ubisoft, Bungie, Capcom, Konami, Epic Games, Midway, and Maxis Studios.

Movies: Documentaries, Animated films (Disney, Pixar, Miyazaki), Action, Horror, Drama, Thriller, Psychological, Foreign, Indie

Anime: Shingeki no Kyojin (Attack On Titan), Darker Than Black, Ghost in the Shell, Ergo Proxy, Samurai Champloo, Cowboy Bebop, Death Note, Trigun, Hellsing, Blood+
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm mentally hyperactive (blame it on the ADHD) so I tend to overthink and overanalyze at times, but over the years I've learned to quell that and sort of use it to my advantage, especially when it comes to my work. I sometimes end up talking too much and can be superfluous about things, particularly if I get really excited about a subject I'm interested in, but in general I'm pretty even-keeled.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Crying into an empty bottle of vodka.
You should message me if
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I'm on here to find someone compatible with me, and is genuinely interested in finding a possible long-term partner, so if you've read my profile and feel that you've found me attractive in some way, shoot me a message.

I will say this, though. I'm not on here to jump through mental hoops. Being coy is cute, but playfully. I can't get down with people who don't know what they want or are going through a phase of uncertainty, and I get uncomfortable when people don't know how to communicate effectively and honestly. I'm really a stand up guy and I would expect the same.

I'm typically very picky with whom I give my energy to. I prefer to reserve my time, intensity, and spirit exclusively to those who reflect the kind of honesty, kindness and sincerity that I express towards others.

I like those with big imaginations, big hearts, intelligence, and compassion. Being silly, sarcastic, and genuinely enjoying each other's company is very endearing to me.

You don't mind that I don't have a car and understand that I'm steadily working on getting one.