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28 Lansing, MI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 18
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Not at all
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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For being a dating site, OkC isn't very up to speed on all the variations of gender and sexuality that exist. I care more about who you are than the labels you're given. I identify as queer, not bi.

I'm quiet in new social settings, I like to take everything and everyone in before I open up. I hold my cards close until I figure out if I can trust you, but that doesn't take long. I stand up for what I believe in and fight for the underdog.

I'm quick witted and bright eyed. I think, move, and talk fast. I enjoy working under pressure and with my hands. I was born in Germany in a past life, and hope to return in this one. I believe in reincarnation. Saturn is my favorite planet. Airplanes and the solar system kind of turn me on.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently attending school full time and I work for a nonprofit organization.
I’m really good at
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Being resourceful and creative. Making people laugh. Learning quickly. Reading people. Origami. Choosing my words, especially adjectives. Metaphors. Mixing different colors of Playdoh. Eating Boston Cream donuts. Driving. Fixing computers. Making new friends. Identifying foreign accents. Drawing stars. Smelling crayons.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My propensity for sarcasm, dry humor, and that I genuinely care about others' well-being. I'm very articulate.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books? Harry Potter...I've read many books I enjoyed, but not many that stuck in my head long term.

Movies? The Darjeeling Limited, Moonrise Kingdom (anything by Wes Anderson), The Matrix, I Heart Huckabees, Awakenings (anything with Robin Williams or Johnny Depp), Waking Life, Harry Potter, Fight Club, Saw Series, Les Miserables, The Great Gatsby

Music? Open to a lot of things, not so much for metal, rap, and country.

Shows? Fargo is about it right now. I'm not a big TV person.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Internet
2. My glasses
3. Sign Language
4. House plants
5. Caramel
6. Origami paper
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can be of benefit to others. How to sign specific things. Being grateful for what I have. How to become a certified interpreter. What others may be feeling or thinking based on their body language.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating waffles with the Queen.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm Secret Squirrel.
You should message me if
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You want to meet me for coffee and see if we have chemistry.