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jfriar31

35 M Phoenix, AZ

My Details

Last Online
Jul 30
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I moved from Indiana 3 years ago to pursue a career in golf. In the meantime I work as a server/manager at a Mesa Restaurant. I'm extremely down to earth and love to hear all opinions and definitely love to give my own. I'm very passionate about learning anything that illuminates the truth in anything.

If you were to ask any of my friends what I'm like they would likely say I'm a jack of all trades. I wouldn't say I'm amazing at any one thing but I can do most anything well. My mind is all over the place. I rarely keep to one activity or place for too long. I just get bored once I reach a certain level of achievement I suppose.

One thing has remained constant though out my life. I have always been amazed by life and consciousness. I look out into the sky and am enamoured by its complexity. I spend a lot of time thinking about the meaning of life (if there is one) and what that means I should do with my life. I still don't have it all figured out so I find myself always trying new things and ideas.

I enjoy keeping myself in shape and eating well. I get to the gym about 3-5 days a week. I weight train and play sports when I can. I go hiking as much as I can. Being out in nature by myself is a great time to reflect and put things in perspective.
What I’m doing with my life
I spend a lot of my time thinking about reality and how it came to be. While not thinking about the cosmos or how human evolution brought us to what we are now I work as serving/managing job at a restaurant. It gets the bills paid and I enjoy most of the people I work with but my greater goal at the moment is to become a teaching professional in the golf industry. As a scientist at heart i enjoy learning the technical side of the swing(geometry, physics) that makes for an uncompensated repeatable swing and to teach it as affectively as possible. I don't know exactly what my future holds but I plan on doing more introspection into myself to live a life as close to my belief system as possible which I currently believe will lead to true happiness.
I’m really good at
I have been through many tough situations in my life and had many female influences. I believe this has given me a great sense of empathy for people who suffer with emotional issues and I have been able to give these people a sense of security and understanding of their situation. I think above all you must look deep within yourself and analyze yourself as objectively as possible. Questions like: When I get sad, angry, jealous, where are these emotions stemming from? Is this a healthy reaction? If not, where did I get these ideas and what would be a more rational response?
The first things people usually notice about me
I think many people initially see me physically and pick up a jock or meat head vibe and write me off as a lady's man with likely nothing going on upstairs. This couldn't be further from the truth. I am much older than I look physically and pride myself on meaningful conversations about a variety of topics which throws most people off immediately. I kinda enjoy seeing the shock in their eyes when they realize the book and cover don't match.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
As for books: The Golfing Machine, The Metabolic Typing Diet, The Fountainhead, anything philosophy or science,

Movies: Documentaries, Most comedies (Dumb and Dumber),

Shows: Two and a half men, How i Met Your Mother, King of Queens.

Music: My music selection is very broad. From hip hip to some country. Emphasis on SOME!

Food: I love food. I really enjoy tinkering with my diet to see different results in my body. I enjoy cooking. I'll eat anything short of oysters, stuffing, and sweet potatoes. I think I just threw up in my mouth a little just thinking about it.
The six things I could never do without
I could probably do without most everything. I would rephrase it as six things I would rather not do without, besides family and friends.

phone,
internet
DVR
car
at least 8 hours of sleep a night
air conditioning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
philosophy. I try to live by my moral code. I have a good idea what that code is but I'm still tweaking with it. I believe in truth and empiricism. Without them how can anyone come to any rational conclusions. I also enjoy learning about the psychology of human nature and why we are the way we are. Maybe someday my understanding will become great enough that I can really make a difference in this world.
On a typical Friday night I am
working my serving job and maybe hanging out with some friends afterward.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm really not that private. Ask and you shall receive.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
You should message me if
you are open minded and enjoy good conversation. Someone who is conscious of others and enjoys life. I prefer athletic women or someone I can go on adventures with.