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46 Riverside, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
My self-summary
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So I've been thinking about what to say that would give people an accurate picture of who I am and what I am looking to find. I think I would have to say one of my most prominent qualities is that I am loyal. If I am your friend, I am your friend for life. If I am in a commited relationship, I'm commited to it and to making it work. I have friends I have had since childhood and I can honestly say I would do anything for them. I feel the same level of commitment to family. My children are so important to me. Being my children's father is my number one priority. I have fifty percent custody of them because being involved in their daily life is so necessary to me. This means I go to their events, I helped them with their homework, I play with them and show them new experiences, I tuck them in at night. I hope to find someone who feels that same level of commitment and loyalty, as I want my next marriage to be my last.
That being said, I also like to have a lot of fun in life. I love surfing and snow boarding and boating. I enjoy listening to a band play or hanging out at a bar for a few drinks or watching a game at home. I am an avid swimmer and do this most mornings before work.
My career as a teacher is very fulfilling as well. I enjoy helping children learn and achieve their full potential. I love when I can inspire a student to work harder and learn what it feels like to learn and achieve.
I have a witty sense of humor. Sometimes it's a little dry and sarcastic. I enjoy stimulating conversation and a person who can match my witty banter and be playful in conversation.
What I really want is to find the true love of my life. I'm not willing to settle so if that takes years, then it takes years. I hope it doesn't though. I want that feeling of coming home to someone and telling them about my day and listening to their day and sharing the good times and the bad. Someone who truly is my best friend. Someone with whom I share common interests. Someone who is smart and independent and fun. Someone I can enjoy life with, who can lean on me and be my rock as well. I know that sounds cliche, but it is true.
I want to live my life with no regrets, to be able to look back at the end of my life and know that I lived it to the fullest, that my relationships with loved ones were happy and fulfilling and that I put my energy into the most important things in life... the people I love.
If any of this sounds like what you're looking for and like what is important to you, I'd love to hear from you.
References available upon request. See, I'm a crack up ;)
What I’m doing with my life
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I take care of my two children during the weeks I have them. During my off weeks, I still go to their events and activities. This is my first priority.
I am a teacher and put a lot of energy into doing that well.
When I'm not at work or with my children, I am doing different things at different times. You may find my on the slopes for a day of snowboarding, at the beach for some early morning surfing, working on a home improvement project, or spending some time with family or friends.
I also enjoy reading and listening to music. I swim to keep in shape most mornings.
In addition, I'm putting in time and effort in the dating arena, hoping to find true love at some point.
Oh, and I try to get some sleep here and there also.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Well, I think I'm a great teacher. I've been doing this for over 20+ years now and I have developed a great balance of caring and discipline that enables my students to reach their potential, which is what I push them to do.
I am also good at being a friend. I have many friends from high school and college that I still am very close to.
I'd like to think my kids would say I'm a good father. I work very hard to try to provide my children with love, stability, and guidance. Being consistent in their life is a priority to me.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm a little quiet initially. Sometimes people may misread this. But once someone gets to know me, they will know I'm anything but boring. I am passionate about life and actually enjoy humor and wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ska & Reggae music (No Doubt, Bob Marley, Mighty Mighty Bosstones, Aggrolites, Slightly Stoopid, etc. Most 80s movies, Sci-Fi movies. Favorite books - Ender's Game, Dresden Files series, Clancy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My kids
2. My friends and family
3. My music
4. My iPhone
5. My waterproof ipod shuffle
6. My snowboard
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future and if I will find the perfect partner for me. My children's future and if I am providing them what they need to grow into loving, happy adults.
How to find time to make dinner after working all day ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have a typical Friday. If I have my kids I'm usually hanging out with them, watching a movie, playing a game, or just relaxing together and catching up.
If I don't have my kids, I could be out with friends, playing poker, or just hanging out at home relaxing after a busy week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Even though I am a teacher, I am scared to death of public speaking.
You should message me if
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I would love to hear from you if you think our values and lifestyle would be a match after reading my profile and you live in or near Riverside.