Mythbuster #2: Musicians are flaky and not reliable or responsible. OK, this one I get. After all, I've quite likely been around way more musicians than you have...but don't let the guitar (or any other instruments) fool you. I'm a smart, creative, responsible, diverse, stable individual (and a single parent)...so, how about we let go of that stereotype right now?
I am a passionate, compassionate, sexy and romantic man with a big heart and always doing my best to make the world a better place. I also haven't lost my sense of being a kid and don't have any intention of doing so. I love to laugh and make other people laugh. Most people say I have a great sense of humor and consider me to be a lot of fun to be around. But I'm not all fun and games...I have a very serious and focused side to me as well.
I've led an interesting (sometimes I feel bordering on incredible) life so far, and yet, I'm nowhere near complete...maybe halfway. I'm confident and I know who I am. I hope you are as well...because I truly believe you should OWN who you are...and it's much more arrogant NOT to own all that you are, than it is to openly share our gifts in the world. That's why we're here!
I've traveled a lot and lived in many places, but feel I have "permanently" landed here in Northern California, where I've been for the past 9 years or so. I love it here!
I'm responsible for raising some amazing boys...but I only have my boys about half the time, usually a week at a time, which leaves a lot of opportunity for "adult time" in both individual and couple pursuits. In fact, with the boys getting older and enjoying their own social lives, even the "custody" schedule is a moving target...
I own my business that has a lot of diversity to it so it keeps me busy, but I also have a very flexible schedule. I also have a number of creative pursuits (even in my business). Music and writing are deep passions for me. I've been playing music almost my entire life and had a career in that field earlier in my life...and may do it again on some level.
Fitness and health have always been very important to me, but as I get older I am even more fascinated by what is possible in that area. I'm probably in the best shape of my life right now...and I'm constantly amazed at what our bodies can do.
I'm looking for that one very special person who creates an ideal partnership by being a best friend, having a deep energetic connection (we can "feel" each other), enjoying amazing conversation and experiences together and being a sensual and deeply connected physical match. You are confident and comfortable in your own skin (and you love mine, too) and take good care of yourself in every way: body, mind and spirit.
Ultimately, I'm looking for the "last" relationship that I'll have in this lifetime...but I'm not in a rush to find you (while at the same time, my more impatient side responds by saying: "What's taking you so long??? I've had this profile up for over 30 minutes now!").
With all that said, I've met some really interesting people here (and others...well, not so much). It isn't always about the "love connection" -- sometimes there are other reasons that we're connecting...something else we're supposed to do together.
I don't believe in "fate" (per se) because I understand that everything happens inside some kind of divine plan, even if we don't always understand what it is; but I believe in magic (or at least a form of it) and the attraction and connection between similar energy dynamics. I already know we will find each other, whether here or somewhere else...nothing else is possible.