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jhny104

36 F Astoria, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:25pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I work at a university in the city (not a teacher) and volunteer for a couple different organizations (interested primarily in HIV/AIDS and Public Health) in my spare time. I've been really busy at work lately and volunteering has fallen by the way side but I'm going to change that soon.

I practice yoga and pilates often. Being healthy and eating well is pretty important to me. However, I'm a huge sucker for baked goods and I'm flexible and fun to go out to eat with. I am healthy when food shopping for my apt. I just started a gluten free diet and it's really hard so far!

Also, I indulge in burgers, fries and milkshakes only once a week but when I do, I make sure it's from a GREAT place!

Before my exercise regimen and healthy eating lifestyle, I used to be the laziest girl you've ever met. I would eat bad for you food and would whine if my heart pounded too much. I am really proud of my change for the better and could never have done a headstand 7 years ago. This means my ideal boyfriend would be healthy as well. No smokers or big drinkers please. :). I usually drink a glass of wine at home and really don't like bars or bar culture.

Would choose a cute hole in the wall coffee shop over a Starbucks any day but would choose a Starbucks over a Dunkin Donuts if I had to.

Born and raised NY'er. Never left in 35 years. Hope that changes one day.

I enjoy the Health section of the NYT (especially the Well Blog) more than any other section and am really interested in rare diseases or perplexing ailments. "House" was one of my favorite shows. I got the diagnoses right a lot of the time. :)

I get giddy at Trader Joe's when it's empty and I get even more excited for farmers markets in the summer and fall.

Love farms and taking trips outside the city to visit them.

I tell the best stories and hear I make people laugh a lot.

I'm ambidextrous but write with my left hand. For some reason, people who meet me are fascinated by this.

I don't play games with dating. If I like you, I let you know. If I don't feel it, I also let you know. I'm very straightforward and dates have always said how much they appreciated it. I look for the same. Life's too short to be left wondering. I'm sensitive though and always make sure never to hurt someone's feelings. I respect others who do the same.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
being sassy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh and be comfortable. I can talk to anyone and make them instantly at ease. I have a knack for cheering people up when they're down too.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I usually have a huge smile on my face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't have cable but I loved Arrested Development and am glad for Netflix! I also like some network tv shows. I used to be a film major and love documentaries. I don't care for romantic comedies (except "Love Actually") so you wouldn't have to worry about me dragging you to one.

I'm a child of the 80's and have an older sister so my first loves are The Smiths and The Cure. Today my taste is more like XX on Pandora and the like.

I'm obsessed with Sprinkles Cupcakes and Ice Cream right now.

I'm about to read a new book called "Drunk Mom". This is the type of stuff that interests me at the moment.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family and friends
yoga & pilates
baked goods- I'm gluten free for a month so this sucks
afternoon naps
ice cream
affection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
anything and everything. My brain doesn't shut off!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either taking a yoga class, meeting a friend for dinner or sitting on my couch exhausted from a hard week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be dense sometimes. At work, I thought this high level exec was giving me "pounds" with his fist since he hadn't seen me in awhile and we usually chit chat. So I fist-bumped him (he's also quite a bit older so I thought it odd but did it anyway). When I noticed his confused look, it was because he was offering me a few Hershey's kisses in his hand. ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
This is a long list but I'm 35 and have dated enough to know what I'm compatible with at this point. Why waste anyone's time?

*You're mentally and financially stable, sweet, considerate, CONSISTENT, kind and RELIABLE (seriously). No flakes please! I don't have time for people who aren't serious about getting to know me. I'm super reliable and you should be too.

You're looking for a possible relationship. Not on the 2nd date but not in 6 months from now either. You move at a normal pace in a relationship.

You aren't cocky or arrogant. I like smart guys and sometimes they end up being full of themselves. Just because you have a degree doesn't mean you are better than the waitress or the mailman or anyone for that matter. So only down to earth guys please!

You're secure and aren't super critical of yourself or others.

You keep healthy in moderation. You aren't afraid to touch sugar (cupcakes!) but you are aware enough of your nutritional needs that pizza and takeout aren't a balanced meal. Of course sometimes takeout is awesome and necessary!

You refuse to settle for anything less than you want or deserve. I would rather be single and happy than stressed and in an unhealthy relationship. You should agree.

Lastly, you want to take a foliage boat tour up the Hudson or go on a scavenger hunt or this www.outstandinginthefield.com

**I've given a lot of information so please write something that shows you've read my profile.

***If I don't respond to your message, please don't be offended! However, please don't send me another one after that. I've been ignored too and it hurts the ego. But it's the nature of online dating and people who've never met you so it's not personal. Thank you!