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jillann27

36 / F / straight / Single

Chantilly, Virginia

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Kids
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am sincere, quirky, and empathetic.

My Self-Summary

I am a 36 y.o female living and working in Northern VA. I am unabashedly quirky and proud of it! I am a horror and sci-fi dork. I have my own place in chantilly with a menagerie of pets. Current menagerie is 2 dogs, an elderly cat (17!) and a disgruntled foster cat . I am not shy but still fairly introverted if that makes any sense. I have no problem making the first move, being the one to send over a drink to your table, sending the first email, etc. I figure dating is like the lottery and you have to be in it to win it so "Nothing ventured, Nothing gained" is my motto.

What I’m doing with my life

I work for the county at a special needs group home. I love my job but abhor the odd hours .When i am not working i am watching horror and sci-fi and reading. I am trying to meet new friends and people with dating potential. I am not looking for Insta-Boyfriend, more like lay-a-way Boyfriend. Pun intended!

I just became an Aunt in August '08 and am loving it. My neice inspires me to be a better person and shift my priorities to family and friends.

At 36, Ive got the career, a car i love and I bought my own place in Chantilly in '07. Now I am hoping to get the other pieces of the puzzle we call life in place..

I’m really good at

Listening talking, reading , cooking
and lots of other activities. Just ask me.

The first things people usually notice about me

My bright blue eyes, my chest. Both assets are real, i assure you. If you are familiar with the Myers-Briggs, I am an INFP. I have a goofy sense of humor.
Also I am short, 5'2 and I prefer the term Rubenesque to BBW. BBW is a physical description, when I feel its actually a state of mind. Its the state of loving where youre at and not being a size apologizer. To add a silly phrase-

Once you go thick, you wont want a stick...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Non-fiction, horror, sci-fi and drama, all types of music a rather exhaustive list, all types of food. My fave cuisine is Indian . I have an 8 gig ipod thats almost full. Some fave artists are Ben Folds, Kate Nash, Apocalyptica and Tori Amos. I love non-fiction especially socialogy and medical history and "cultural history of _____" books. I read a few magazines regularly too, Newsweek, Radar and Wired. Fiction is not so much my thing but if I had to pick a fave novel, it would be the Mosquito Coast by Paul Theroux. It was a great, underappreciated movie with Harrison Ford and River Phoenix. I like snarky comedies but am not too thrilled with RomComs and Chick Flicks. Unless they could weave some zombies into it, A zombie Meg Ryan would be awesome!

The six things I could never do without

My dogs, my friends and family, my phone, my ipod & lungs. Dark chocolate.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Hippie stuff, liberal stuff, sexual chemistry, books i want to read, movies i want to see. New cuisines I want to try. Tattoos I want to get. Filthy dirty thoughts. Shoes and clothes I cant afford. I think about my neice and my hopes for her future.

On a typical Friday night I am

Making last minute plans, going to the movies, trying a new restaurant and occasionally, adding to my collection of adventures in internet dating stories. Frequently making new friends and laughing. On Saturdays once or twice a month I go to a local horror movie gathering thing called B.T.N and also a local MST3K thing and I look forward to that immensly. I like quiet nights in too, and buying an Itunes gift card and using the Genius application is a great way to spend an evening.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am adopted and have never located my biological parents.

Really, im not embarassed to admit anything. I really am an open book, if you want to know something, just ask me. Ill tell you.

You should message me if

You dont like cookie cutter women, you like feisty redheads, your'e not an annoying proselytizing religious freak, you like bbws , youre a dork, you go to Renn Faires, you can overlook poor puctuation and typing in an IM. I have a type but dont stick to it, so if youve got confidence and think we may have something in common, please contact me. I would prefer to meet people close to the DC metro area.

p.s- a simple "not interested' email takes 2 seconds, not replying at all is just plain rude!