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38 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

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Today – 12:38am
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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grew up in far-nor-cal, some seattle time, 11 years in the bay now. i'm quiet unless i have something to say. i'm genuine, & i get back up when i fall. i like the things we all like.. i'm pretty even keeled. i like certain extremes. been around the block.
What I’m doing with my life
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i'm curing it in a wine cask. a taste now & then..
I’m really good at
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giving massages, skipping rocks, fixing cars, camping & backpacking, kicking ass & chewing bubblegum.
The first things people usually notice about me
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i'm tall, dimples (ugh), kinda quiet, funny, earth tones? probly some rad music somewhere in there.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: vonnegut, bukowski, orwell, p.k.dick, tolkein, cormac mccarthy, chomsky, ak press..

movies: herzog, david lynch, cohen bros, tarantino, chaplin, jeunet & caro, scorsese, jodorowski, jarmusch, hal hartley, wes anderson, cult stuff, foreign stuff, & comedy, not least.

tv: always sunny, eastbound & down, portlandia, mighty boosh, curb yr enthusiasm, wilfred, workaholics, stewart & colbert, party down, bored to death, the wire, 30 rock..

music: melvins, john zorn, fugazi, built to spill, amon tobin, m.i.a., patti smith, mark lanegan, peter brotzmann; yazoo records, sublime frequencies & mississippi records.

food: thai/burmese, taquerias, indian, ethiopian, seafood, falafels, tommy's, yamo, rosamunde's, fried egg sammichz, peanut butter, avacados, quinoa, beets, my blender, steamer & juicer.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
live music
good lovin'
the open road
new experiences
a little inebriation
this paddle ball, this chair, this lamp
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
which two things i can do today from the list of a hundred things i need to do. sleeping less, healthing more, commuting less, learning more, romance, bass grooves, transcending, the fjords of norway, traveling, romance, green tech, new scientific breakthroughs, favorite lyrics, old conversations, romance.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a show or a house party or a divebar or reading a book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i'm tall AND skinny. i'm a loner, dottie, a rebel. yu don't wanna get mixed up with a guy like me.
You should message me if
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yu think jealousy is pretty lame.
yu'd wanna see a show.
yu uh.. well, yu know