I went to my first TAM in vegas this year which was great fun.
When the weather is nice I like riding the motorcycle everywhere I can. There's room on the back if you are feeling adventurous.
I'm more apt to enjoy small social gatherings than large parties.. or crowded bars.. those just don't appeal to me as I rarely have more than a beer or two or glass of wine in an evening. A little grilling out with friends.. some music.. some poker.. a few adult beverages.. that's my idea of a fun friday night. Movie nights in on the couch and take-out are also good.
Weekends are for exploring.. road trips (I've not been to the San Juan islands yet) or sleeping in.. projects around the house.. going to a performance of some sort.