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jimmypeace

48 / M / Gay / Single

Cumberland, Maryland

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Dislikes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am honest, intense, and passionate.

My Self-Summary

reserved yet friendly I enjoy gardening, hiking and otherwise spending time with nature...a homebody, I do not go out much but when I do I enjoy dancing and intimate dinners with friends...I enjoy readingas much as possible and spend equally as much time in exercising...my home and health are important to me and I spend time tending to both...I prefer quality over quantity in all things and yet struggle with the need to limit my posessions...deep thoughts into the nature of things often obsess me and I often need to be reminded to lighten up...I do not have outrageous goals or expectations for the future, simply want a quiet life with a man that I can grow closer to over time and share everything with, without the fear...

What I’m doing with my life

I have been recovering from a decade long depressive period, it's how I imagine it would feel to emerge from a coma...working and saving to make necessary repairs and upgrades to mothers home for her retirement to be comfortable,that almost accomplished I can now focus more on my own life, I hope. I want to reestablish a suitable program of exercise/ yoge/meditation for my physical health, and an intimate relationship for my mental and spiritual health and growth. It feels as though the time has arrived.

I’m really good at

I enjoy making something out of nothing, making people laugh and giving good advice. I can usually see to the heart of a person yet not be able to recognize the surface for what it really portrays, all the world it seems really is a stage and I recognize the actors yet not the characters they embody. Organizing and sorting and arranging things as I have a touch of OCD in those catagories, comes easily. Conversation is another talent as I have knowledge of a wide array of topics and reasonable depth to many (I am good at parties). Crosswords are fun as I have a considerable grasp of language and vocabulary. I also seem to be able to put people at ease in social situations as I can sense the similarities in others and tease them out.

The first things people usually notice about me

I've been told that people often notice my manner and consider me calm, cool and collected, my sense of humor and easygoing style, my intensity, sincerity and genuine interest. I would like to think that they would notice my friendliness and charm as well as my sense of timeless style and handsomeness,and eyes, and smile, and...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

My favorite fiction is fantasy ie. Lord Of The Rings, Star Wars , Star Trek
or even erotic fantasy.
My favorite non-fiction is generally of a buddhist/spiritual nature.
My favorite movies are Fantasy or Period films with all of the costumes,
I like to be transported by the cinema to another reality, not reminded
of this one.
My favorite music varies but has yet to include country, rap,or metal.
My favorite foods are generally vegetarian but not exclusively so, I very
much enjoy ethnic foods of most kinds, simply light on the meat.

The six things I could never do without

1. The love of my family and friends
2. Growing things and pets as companions
3. Hope and faith in tomorrow
4. Sleeping and napping
5. Quiet, comfortable homelife and surroundings
6. Intimacy
7. Afternoon Tea

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The health and well being of my family, friends and of course myself
human nature and the way of things
ahimsa, non-harming and reincarnation
when will this all end and will I still be alone when it does?
why'd they circumcise me and can I have that back?
will I ever feel secure enough to truely share myself with another?
is Al Gore right?
in light of all the suffering, shouldn't we all be vegetarian?
will I ever find another man who is twisted in just the right way?
where does all of the time go and can any of it ever be for me?

On a typical Friday night I am

typically on Friday I am relaxing at home preparing for my work week which begins on Saturday, alone with the laptop or remote...I would prefer and hope for something more atypical such as lying by a crackling fire wrapped up with the one I love and cannot imagine being without.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I sometimes find myself lonely and afraid.

You should message me if

...Your heart tells you to...