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64 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45–70
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 16
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am a sucker for a dark hairy-chested man, but I learned a long time ago that a hairy chest is not enough. I was a building contractor for 30+ years and am very creative and good with my hands. I am a spiritual being, believing we need to take responsibility for this beautiful planet.

I seek a relationship with a man who knows his purpose in life. Your career, material possessions, and income are unimportant to me. I've had five lovers over 30 years and know the give and take of living with and loving another man. Three of my lovers were HIV+ AND it is not an issue for me, though I am negative.

I am VERY sexual with the right man, but I am a romantic and not interested in casual sex OR sex on the first date. I am easy going, down to earth, non-judgmental, and quietly passionate about life. My most recent relationship ended because our love languages were very different. I am more even-tempered than emotional. See

My father was a gorilla, so you will have to like body hair and love me for who I am inside, rather than my body. My muscles are strong rather than gym sculpted. I am an Aries Tiger if you are into astrology.

I took the Dating Persona Test which declared me "The Loverboy Random Gentle Love Master" (RGLM)

Well-liked. Well-established. Loverboys thrive in committed, steady relationships—as opposed to, say, Playboys, who want sex without too much attachment.

You’ve had many relationships and nearly all of them have been successful. You’re a nice guy, you know the ropes, and even if you can be a little hasty with decisions, most guys think of you as a total catch. Your hastiness comes off as spontaneity most of the time anyhow, making you especially popular in your circle of friends, too.

You know not to make the typical Loverboy mistake of choosing someone who appreciates your good humor and popularity, but who offers nothing in return. You belong with someone outgoing, independent, and creative. Otherwise, you’ll get bored. And then instead of surprising him with flowers or a practical joke, you’ll surprise him by leaving.

It’s funny how that is all true about me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've had a full life and am figuring out what I will do in retirement to make the world a better place than I found it. This may be a large task and take up much of the remainder of my life.
But I feel a moral obligation to do so.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like to imagine, dream, engage creativity, solve problems, and build things with my hands and my mind. I like to play with dogs and lean hairy masculine humans.

I listen to about two unabridged digital audio books a week. Tell me of your favorite books and authors.

I am exploring the idea of becoming a writer and am half way through writing my first three novels.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My beautiful brown eyes gazing at you, seeking to make love to your soul.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I listen to over 100 unabridged digital audio books each year. Always looking to listen to authors that others love.

I like history, biographies, philosophy, politics, science fiction, and other fiction, I read a lot about religions though I am a devout atheist ;-)

I don't own a TV...Saving that for when I am 90 and can't get up.

I don't need music in my life and prefer to live in Silence, though I don't mind listening to music that others like. I can tune it out if I don't like it. This will get me vetoed by all you music lovers and Musicians.

Food is like sex...Yum, Yum, YUM often
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Lean hairy men, four-legged Gods, Ideas, the Magic of Christmas, Imagination, AND Sex...What a gift to be a man and have that wonderful appendage between my legs.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex or making the world a better feeds the other LOL
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You will have to spend a Friday night with me to find out ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I recently put my old dog, Henrietta, to sleep and I am still recovering from the sadness. :-(((
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have some hair on your chest, are thin, don't smoke, love to read, kiss and cuddle and are interested in so much more than casual sex in your potentially unorthodox relationship with me.