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jimreverend

33 / M / Straight / Seeing someone

Aubrey, Texas

His Details

Last Online
Dec 7, 2011
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of two-year college
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
tl;dr: Adventureous, geeky, single parent seeks to share mornings, tea, and everything under the sun and moon with someone filled with passion and honesty.

I am always trying something new. I'm a morning person though I can stay up all night for the right adventure. I prefer tea to coffee. I am a single-father, a geek, and a loyal friend. I am honest, intense, and passionate. I love the outdoors, am generally straight-forward, and seeking a friend as well as a lover.

I like everything about the morning: sunrises, colder air, mental alertness. I like having a whole new day before me. I like routine and ritual. But throwing in unknown elements is what makes things exciting. I am fast paced and I work hard. I do a lot and I see a lot. I relax too, from time to time. Dum Vivimus, Vivamus.

My daughter means the world to me. I seek those who enjoy children and won't leave me in a situation where I have to decide between being a good father or a good (boy)friend. I believe that children are best raised by a village. I think that, as a society, we make raising children a lot more difficult than it needs to be.

I crave honesty. I'll take candor over tact any day. I think too much, I hope too much, I worry too much, and dream too much. But I like it that way. I seek passion in those around me. I poke at all of the cracks and holes, I rub up against boundaries, I push every button until I find it. Passion is what separates us from the rest of the animal kingdom.

I am an outdoorsy type. I think that life is better lived under the sky. Sunshine is free, and no one sings me to sleep better than the crickets. I enjoy hiking, walking, swimming, camping, finding frogs in the clouds, and gods in the stars.

I'd like to live in the city or in the country and am not too excited about anything in between. Someday I'd like to have a few chickens and a goat or two.

When it comes to those who matter to me and the way I show them affection, I usually speak with my actions first. I take care of people. I always put others first and make sure their needs and wants are met. While I do it freely and without expectation, if I don't feel appreciated and cared for in return I'm generally not very satisfied in a relationship, friendship or otherwise. However, when I do feel cared for I'm overly appreciative and show my affection with words as well.

I'm seeking friends first, lovers second.

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What I’m doing with my life
Being a web programmer, process consultant, and computer systems architect pays my bills.

I'm a photographer, a friend, a father, and a lover of life. I have a passion for people, and art, and warmth, and love. I am highly likely to get caught up in a moment. I seek those moments.

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I’m really good at
I'm really good at listening, talking, and finding the truth.

I'm good at organizing things. I love to make lists.

I'm a great teacher, and I love children.

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The first things people usually notice about me
I'm always doing something. Most people ask me if I ever just do nothing. The answer is yes: when I sleep.

Often people say I resemble Quentin Tarantino. I'm not sure if they mean in looks or in mannerisms. Maybe I'm better off not knowing.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read often. Naming my favorite books is difficult. However, as of right now, The Raw Shark Texts, Ender's Game, The Art of Racing in the Rain, and Still life with Woodpecker will work.

I don't watch a lot of movies. Mostly because I don't typically sit still long enough to finish one. But, I do enjoy them from time to time. Some of my favorites are: Princess Bride, 21 Grams, The Burning Fields, Interstate 60, Babel

I love music. However, I'm one of those people easily distracted by sound -- specifically voices. So, when I'm doing something that requires concentration, I go for silence or something instrumental. Otherwise, I tend to prefer the singer-songwriter style. I like songs that are poetry to music. I like people who can tell a story. I like a song to make me feel. Then again, every now and then a good bootie shaking is in order. I enjoy Jonathan Coulton, Mike Doughty, Ben Folds, Ani Difranco, Mountain Goats, Imogen Heap among others.

I am a big fan of eastern foods. Rice is my preferred starch. I eat meat, though am not adamant about it. From time to time I do enjoy a nice steak. Popcorn is the best snack ever. And not that microwave crap either.

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The six things I could never do without
* My Daughter
* My Chosen Family
* Passion
* Meaning
* Intimacy
* My Camera

(List Subject to Change on a whim)

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
* Other people.
* The future.
* The truth.
* What's right.

I spend a lot of time trying not to think about the past. I'm getting better at it.

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On a typical Friday night I am
Making dinner with my daughter, staying up too late playing, sometimes at home, often around town. We don't sit still for long.

Occasionally I'll visit a bar or club, but it's not really my thing.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Most of who I am is an open book. However, the closer you get to the center the harder it becomes to turn the pages. It can be misleading, I'm sure.

I love kissing and mornings, but if you want both at the same time you're going to have to let me brush my teeth first.

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I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
* You are awesome
* You practice yoga and want to show me the ropes
* You want a running partner
* You like tea
* You are a morning person
* You seek adventure

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