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29 San Luis Obispo, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:59am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 5" (1.96m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm opinionated. I'm easy going. I commit intensely to things I think are important in my life.

Having been raised a dyed-in-the-wool sarcastic I think you'll find humor is a huge part of my personality, for better or worse. I have way too many inside jokes with friends to count, and will always serve up a healthy serving of wiseass. I'm one of those people who can recite lines from movies or shows I've seen once. It's a gift and a curse.

I'm a sci-fi nerd, well a nerd about most things. I sort of define it as someone who delves all the way into the details with the things they're passionate about. I like that about myself. Most people would say it's my collection of Star Wars LEGO that makes me a nerd, but I disagree.

Over the past few years I feel like I've taken the biggest steps forward in terms of finding myself socially and personally - that included my first long term relationship. I haven't really been dating much since then, but I'm by no means giving up on the idea.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a customer service manager at a local company and also a photographer and filmmaker. I would like to do more of one and less of the other; I'll let you guess which.

I've also been making somewhat shaky attempts at getting healthier - I'm pretty out of shape and a bit overweight for no good reason I can think of, and turning that around is on my priority list. Turns out old habits die hard.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...a lot of things. Being a "jack-of-all-trades" is, according to my Grandmother, a genetic gift in my family. If I come across something I don't know how to do I feel instinctively challenged to learn it. As a result I have a large collection of seemingly random skills, although being a jack of all trades means being a master of a select few.

...second-guessing myself. Over-thinking things in general.

...taking care of people. I like entertaining and making people feel like a part of the crowd (as long as I do).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well I'm six and a half feet tall. I'll give you two guesses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Martian, Seveneves

Movies: 2001: A Space Odyssey, inglorious basterds, The Empire Strikes Back, Apollo 13, Vertigo, Stoker, to name a few...

TV: master of none(!), house of cards, true detective, good eats, mythbusters, Seinfeld, Star Wars: Rebels, 30 rock, p&r, the office

Music: not country, not most pop recently, but most other stuff

Food: sushi, barbecue, wine, whiskey (bourbon), Thai, Indian,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
- a camera
- the ocean (pacific)
- friends & family
- delis (where would I buy sandwiches? did I mention I love sandwiches?)
- my computer (a tool for work, play, creating, learning)
- if you believe the Scientologists, my thetans.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...when I'm finally going to feel like my real life has begun.

...what I'd rather be doing at 1pm on a Tuesday, or any weekday for that matter.

...what it's going to be like in 40 years when all of us have grandkids who can look up all the dumb shit we said on The Internet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
grabbing drinks with friends, pew pewing spaceships on my computer, letting go of the weeks frustrations.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is not safe for internet admitting.
You should message me if
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I seem like someone you could spend time with, maybe share some of yourself with.