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45 Kenosha, WI Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 23
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I am funny, creative, laid-back, and physically affectionate. I am looking for someone who is intelligent, caring, and is interested in building a relationship that is realistic...but still involves falling in love. I have been divorced for 5 years and have quite a bit of casual dating under my belt. I make a point of kicking back and enjoying the process, but I am curious about what is on the other side of "casual" and pretty much done just dating around. I have three funny, creative kids (9, 12, and 15) who keep me busy. When I am in a relationship with a man it is a chance to chill out, adventure, and play...that is how I get close to someone. I suppose if someone held me to the wall about it I would say that it is the shared life that makes life worth living.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I teach urban poor kids. I am a librarian, but forget the bun and glasses (sorry to those who fantasize about such) and imagine the ninja librarian (my students are pretty tough). In my school that means I am collaborative instructor and I do a lot with research & tech while I keep those books circulating. I am working on some big ole school improvement projects. I am also developing the concept for a charter school because I can't think of anything more fun than starting a school that is amazing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
talking, thinking, listening, and laughing. The rest is all a hobby.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and my capacity to look comfortable no matter what I am doing. I'm pretty laid and there I say the jaw dropping thing and that gets attention.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like foreign or independent films, books that address the whys of society and relationships and political pieces online, alternative/folk rock, and Korean food. Yum. Currently though I am ramming countless articles about school improvement into my brain...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Really rich deep bold coffee with light cream (keep that hot water with a brown crayon dipped in it away from me).
2. My kids (did I really just put them second?).
3. Nature: lakes, oceans, mountains, prairies, forests, a fresh breeze...and hiking or swimming in them.
4. The Internet (things I used to ask Mom...well, now I google it).
5. My Smart Phone.
6. A glass of red wine (I could live without it, but is nice).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
people, relationships, school change, where I put stuff. I am a sociologist by nature and...where are my keys anyway?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Half of my Fridays are with my kids and the others I am out galavanting about. If it is a really tough week, then sometimes Netflix with a glass of red wine works just fine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a terrible sense of direction. I once got lost in a forest preserve and had to use my GPS to find my way out. ;-)
You should message me if
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you are interested in casually dating because in the long run you are looking for a committed long-term relationship and, well, if you like...

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