46 Baton Rouge, LA
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My self-summary
Eclectic is probably one of the best words to describe me, my life, and my friends. I love drum circles, broadway musicals, rock concerts and almost everything in between. I can be happy in an evening gown at a gala or jeans at a dive bar. I like dinner parties with intellectual conversation over a fine wine as much as I like skinny dipping in the creek with a bucket of mojitos. I usually have many people around me and love to hold huge parties, but time with special people in private and time alone are important too.

I am generally open-minded and adventurous

I am Married. I am very happy in my marriage and I am not looking to replace "threadfinder". We are poly, so available seems like a good option to choose. We are totally open and honest about and with all of our partners. We don't believe in cheating because we tell each other everything.

What am I looking for: Well, I am not sure I am actively "looking for" anything. I generally feel as if what I "need" comes along, whether I look for it or not. :) I am open to talking to people and am always interested in getting to know new people.

However; I should probably come with a caution label that says something about my crazy schedule that involves leaving town for a month or more at a time (for business) and the fact that I have my own business, a husband, and other people I am seeing ... so if you need someone who can give you their undivided attention at any time you need it at a moments notice, or spent every night of the week with you, I am probably not what you are looking for.

That is not to say that I don't try to be there for my friends and partners as much as possible and when a friend is in need, I am the kind of person who will drop everything and help if humanly possible.

I would, at some point like to have multiple life partners to experience life with, share a home with, travel with (at least sometimes), and share a poly lifestyle with. I like partners who are interested in getting along with each other.

My desire is for partners who are open-minded and like to experience new things ... whether it is a new restaurant, a new travel destination, or something new sexually.

I like partners who have many interests and are rather eclectic and intellectual in their tastes, but I am not a "snob".

I am NOT, however; interested in televised sports ... looking for people to jump into bed with ... going to have time to date someone several days a week (most of the time)... interested in people with jealousy issues ... interested in people who want to cheat on their significant other - honesty is important to me ...

That is quite a bit of information for one question in a "get to know me" section, but I like people to know what they are getting themselves into. Like I said, honesty is important to me. :)
What I’m doing with my life
I am self-employed in artistic pursuits as I follow my bliss, and have been doing it full time since 2001. :)

I love to travel and traveling is an important part of my life and my career. I am a merchant/artist at Renaissance Faires, SCA events, fetish events and Pagan gatherings all over the east coast.
I’m really good at
Almost anything I really WANT to do. :) enjoying life, working hard, creating
The first things people usually notice about me
probably my smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I really love the Kushiel series by Jaqueline Carey. Favorites are hard to choose ... there are sooooo many good books .... Some other favorites: "One" and "Illusions: The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah" by Richard Bach, "A Lotus Grows in the Mud", some Anne Rice,some Ray Bradbury, Heinlein and so many others. There is definitely never a shortage of books to read in my house.

I watch movies in almost every genre there is. I can enjoy everything from cheesy entertainment to independant films depending on my mood.

I tend to listen to bands like Spiral Rhythm, Emerald Rose, Tempest, The Modern Icons, and Frenchy & the Punk. I love Celtic music - old and new - it must be in my blood (I think my heritage gives me tendencies toward Celtic music and good scotch). ;) I listen to almost anything - I usually like upbeat country, alternative, pop, rock... it's all good. I love blues and jazz too, which makes Baton Rouge an even lovelier place to live.

Food: Thai anyone? Sushi, Indian, real Tex-Mex ... the spicier the better ... just like life. Not that there isn't a great deal of comfort in curling up with a grilled cheese sandwich and tomato soup on a cold day...
I love to cook. We cook a great deal of Thai food at our house.

I have eclectic tastes in almost everything in life. I tend to get something out of every experience. In most things I prefer to be tempted by both subtlety and intensity.

I enjoy finding and learning new things as often as possible.
The six things I could never do without
Freedom, Friends, water (lake, ocean, or stream) - I'm lost without it, music, something to occupy my mind, hugs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
life, people, creating, my work
On a typical Friday night I am
at a festival, a Ren Faire, a drum circle, out dancing, hanging with friends, or occasionally at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I admitted it here, it would no longer be private, would it?
You should message me if
The spirit moves you. Don't be shy... I welcome new friends.