Eclectic is probably one of the best words to describe me, my life, and my friends. I love drum circles, broadway musicals, museums and almost everything in between. I can be happy in an evening gown at a gala or jeans at a dive bar. I like dinner parties with intellectual conversation over a fine glass of wine as much as I like skinny dipping in the creek at the farm with a bucket of mojitos. I usually have many people around me and love to hold huge parties, but time with special people in private and time alone are important too.
I am generally open-minded and adventurous.
I consider myself bi and poly.
I am recently married. We are poly, so available still seems like a good option to choose since I didn't see "married and available" lol. We are totally open and honest about and with all of our partners.
The ocean is my place to go for energy and healing... it inspires me and refreshes me ... The waters of the mother flowing to me, giving me life ... the waters of creation lapping at my feet.
What am I looking for: Well, I am not sure I am actively "looking for" anything. I generally feel as if what I "need" comes along, whether I look for it or not. :) I am fairly open to talking to people and am always interested in getting to know new people.
Although I should probably come with a caution label that says something about my crazy schedule that involves leaving town for a month or more at a time (for business) and the fact that I own my own business and have a husband as well as other people I am seeing ... so if you need someone who can give you their undivided attention at any time you need it at a moments notice, I am probably not what you are looking for.
That is not to say that I don't try to be there for my friends and partners as much as possible, but it does sometimes take a good bit of time and energy to keep all of my "balls in the air" so to speak.
I would, however; at some point like to have multiple life partners to experience life with, share a home with, travel with (at least sometimes), and share a poly lifestyle with. I "threadfinder" and i are looking to expand our "family". I like partners who are interested in getting along with each other. My desire is for partners who like to experience new things ... whether it is a new restaurant, a new travel destination, or something new sexually. Although not a necessity, I like a partner who is interested in BDSM play, but not a 24/7 dom/sub relationship... I consider myself a switch, but bdsm is just a small part of my interests rather than an encompassing life-style.
I would love to find someone who would like to take ballroom dance lessons with me.
I like partners who have many interests and are rather eclectic and intellectual in their tastes, but I am not a "snob" ... it seems I tend toward computer geeks and musicians actually. :) My ideal is a partner who is comfortable sharing with me their interests, stories, attractions, joys and sadness ... someone who will dance around a fire circle with me, hang out with my geeky pagan-type friends, and enjoy all that life's experiences have to offer.
I am NOT: interested in televised sports ... looking for people to jump into bed with ... going to have time to date someone several days a week (most of the time)... interested in people with jealousy issues ... interested in people who want to cheat on their significant other - honesty is important to me ...
That is quite a bit of information for one question in a "get to know me" section, but I like people to know what they are getting themselves into. Like I said, honesty is important to me. :)
I am adventurous, artistic, and eclectic