I am generally open-minded and adventurous
I am Married. I am very happy in my marriage and I am not looking to replace "threadfinder". We are poly, so available seems like a good option to choose. We are totally open and honest about and with all of our partners. We don't believe in cheating because we tell each other everything.
What am I looking for: Well, I am not sure I am actively "looking for" anything. I generally feel as if what I "need" comes along, whether I look for it or not. :) I am open to talking to people and am always interested in getting to know new people.
However; I should probably come with a caution label that says something about my crazy schedule that involves leaving town for a month or more at a time (for business) and the fact that I have my own business, a husband, and other people I am seeing ... so if you need someone who can give you their undivided attention at any time you need it at a moments notice, or spent every night of the week with you, I am probably not what you are looking for.
That is not to say that I don't try to be there for my friends and partners as much as possible and when a friend is in need, I am the kind of person who will drop everything and help if humanly possible.
I would, at some point like to have multiple life partners to experience life with, share a home with, travel with (at least sometimes), and share a poly lifestyle with. I like partners who are interested in getting along with each other.
My desire is for partners who are open-minded and like to experience new things ... whether it is a new restaurant, a new travel destination, or something new sexually.
I like partners who have many interests and are rather eclectic and intellectual in their tastes, but I am not a "snob".
I am NOT, however; interested in televised sports ... looking for people to jump into bed with ... going to have time to date someone several days a week (most of the time)... interested in people with jealousy issues ... interested in people who want to cheat on their significant other - honesty is important to me ...
That is quite a bit of information for one question in a "get to know me" section, but I like people to know what they are getting themselves into. Like I said, honesty is important to me. :)
I love to travel and traveling is an important part of my life and my career. I am a merchant/artist at Renaissance Faires, SCA events, fetish events and Pagan gatherings all over the east coast.
I watch movies in almost every genre there is. I can enjoy everything from cheesy entertainment to independant films depending on my mood.
I tend to listen to bands like Spiral Rhythm, Emerald Rose, Tempest, The Modern Icons, and Frenchy & the Punk. I love Celtic music - old and new - it must be in my blood (I think my heritage gives me tendencies toward Celtic music and good scotch). ;) I listen to almost anything - I usually like upbeat country, alternative, pop, rock... it's all good. I love blues and jazz too, which makes Baton Rouge an even lovelier place to live.
Food: Thai anyone? Sushi, Indian, real Tex-Mex ... the spicier the better ... just like life. Not that there isn't a great deal of comfort in curling up with a grilled cheese sandwich and tomato soup on a cold day...
I love to cook. We cook a great deal of Thai food at our house.
I have eclectic tastes in almost everything in life. I tend to get something out of every experience. In most things I prefer to be tempted by both subtlety and intensity.
I enjoy finding and learning new things as often as possible.