I am certainly prepared to go on a lot of first and second dates til I find something long term, and I can be patient if I have to, but I don't have the patience of saint!
I am the definition of introvert. I am a fairly good listener, but I am stubborn as hell...you might have to work to get that out of me :-/ I have always had a need to make people happy, but not everyone. Just the ones I like. Also, I'm absent minded, forgetful, and easily distracted. Sorry.
My interests in the BDSM lifestyle include a little of everything. Obviously D/s. I have quite a masochistic streak in me as well, so impact play is by far my favorite with OTK spanking topping the list (but I also love canes, floggers, crops, paddles, whips, belts) Bondage of course 'cause bondage is awesome!! fire and wax are both great. I very briefly tried needles once. Only four in my arm. I am open to trying this again. Also, very briefly tried the violet wand and would like to explore this more too, as well as other types of electricity.
I am NOT looking for a hookup, and I have decided, in order to avoid becoming a one night stand, I will no longer give it up on the first date :-P
To those still reading, please feel free to send me a message. I am not brave enough to make first contact with anyone! Never have been. Sorry.
K. So...some normal stuff:
I am a pretty laid back and easy going kind of person. Not much gets me angry or upset. It's usually not worth it. Then again, maybe I'm just trying to avoid conflict ;-)
I go to the gym a couple times a week. I'll probably never be skinny though. Sorry. I love to eat :-) I'm ok with that. As long as I'm happy, and try to keep myself healthy. I've come to find there are plenty of men out there who prefer a woman my size. And, if you're one of these men, well, you'll love me :-D