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jj11974

39 F Danville, PA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:00pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Administration
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
So I was hoping to attract the type of person I am looking for with my "most private thing I'm willing to admit" section, but that hasn't really worked out except for a few exceptions. What I'm looking for ultimately is a long term, monogamous Dominant/submissive relationship. Someone between the ages of 29ish and 50ish (I am not likely to go too far over 50) preferably someone with experience. (If I say "OTK" and you say "whaaat??" You're done. Sorry)
I am certainly prepared to go on a lot of first and second dates til I find something long term, and I can be patient if I have to, but I don't have the patience of saint!
I am the definition of introvert. I am a fairly good listener, but I am stubborn as hell...you might have to work to get that out of me :-/ I have always had a need to make people happy, but not everyone. Just the ones I like. Also, I'm absent minded, forgetful, and easily distracted. Sorry.
My interests in the BDSM lifestyle include a little of everything. Obviously D/s. I have quite a masochistic streak in me as well, so impact play is by far my favorite with OTK spanking topping the list (but I also love canes, floggers, crops, paddles, whips, belts) Bondage of course 'cause bondage is awesome!! fire and wax are both great. I very briefly tried needles once. Only four in my arm. I am open to trying this again. Also, very briefly tried the violet wand and would like to explore this more too, as well as other types of electricity.
I am NOT looking for a hookup, and I have decided, in order to avoid becoming a one night stand, I will no longer give it up on the first date :-P
To those still reading, please feel free to send me a message. I am not brave enough to make first contact with anyone! Never have been. Sorry.
K. So...some normal stuff:
I am a pretty laid back and easy going kind of person. Not much gets me angry or upset. It's usually not worth it. Then again, maybe I'm just trying to avoid conflict ;-)
I go to the gym a couple times a week. I'll probably never be skinny though. Sorry. I love to eat :-) I'm ok with that. As long as I'm happy, and try to keep myself healthy. I've come to find there are plenty of men out there who prefer a woman my size. And, if you're one of these men, well, you'll love me :-D
What I’m doing with my life
Working. That's what I'm doing with my life. And trying to get my 18 yr old boy to get a job!
I’m really good at
Everything :-D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books. There're SOOO many! My favorite is The Count of Monte Cristo. I also like books by Jim Butcher, Patricia Briggs. Mostly urban fantasy type.
My favorite movie is An Officer and a Gentleman. I also love Star Wars, Silence of the Lambs, Harry Potter, Lord of the RIngs, Sound of Music!!!
Tv....I stopped watching tv. No time for it.
Food - I like it ALL
and well, music- I consider myself, first and foremost a Deadhead. I listen to a lot of things though. I like Led Zeppelin, Maroon 5, Eric Hutchinson, Jason Mraz, Anthrax, Black Sabbath, Adele, Metallica, Il Volo, Jimmy Buffett, Zac Brown, SHOWTUNESSSSS, Frank Sinatra...you get the idea.
The six things I could never do without
Music
My son
candy
books
Pittsburgh Steelers
OH! and the rest of my family!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How much money I don't have...
On a typical Friday night I am
usually I'm doing nothing on a Friday night. Maybe soon I could be spending Friday nights with you!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Safe. Sane. Consensual.
I am looking for a long term, monogamous D/s relationship (with me being the s - type)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 21–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you want to :-)