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23 M Cambridge, MA

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
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Graduated from university
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Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hi online dating world,

My name’s Jon, and here’s my feeble attempt to sum up 23 years of life into a few measly paragraphs:

I graduated from college in three and half years, majoring in psychology and discovering a real passion for the subject. I’m finding it hard to meet real quality people now that I’m in the “real world,” and am hoping for some better luck online. I’m down to earth, honest, and passionate about what I want out of life. I studied abroad in the UK during my last semester in college, and believe that trying things out of your comfort zone can make you grow as a person in ways you never thought possible. That being said, family, friends and relationships mean more to me than anything else, and always have come first.

Also, I should add that at this point I'm looking to go beyond the casual thing when it comes to relationships. While I'm certainly not looking to jump into anything serious if it doesn't feel right, ideally I'd like to find someone for more than just a fling.
What I’m doing with my life
This is where thing get funky. I couldn’t be happier working as a research assistant in a LGBT community health center, and being one of the only straight men working there. The current research I focus on deals with behavioral health issues in populations with HIV, as well as helping maintain large databases of HIV+ populations. I’m planning to apply to a clinical psychology Ph.D. program, after which I’ll most likely spend another 6 years of my life in school. Do I feel daunted? Yes. However, I’m very passionate and ambitious when it comes to my career, and wouldn’t want it another other way.
I’m really good at
Well besides being humble of course...

I’d hope for the sake of my professional career I’d be a good listener, and generally view myself as one. To quasi cop-out of this section, I think of myself as more well-rounded than really good at a particular set of things. This makes it pretty easy for me to cary out long conversations about a variety of topics.
The first things people usually notice about me
I often get stereotyped at a first glance into the “macho/partier” category, but if you knew me you’d realize how far from the truth this is. Yes, I do like lifting weights and other manly activities, but I like to embrace all facets of my personality, both masculine and feminine.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Black Hawk Down, Game Change, Omnivore's Dilemma, Into Thin Air and anything by Jon Krakaur. I generally prefer non-fiction over fiction, but am always looking for recommendations either way.

Movies: Old School, Uncle Buck, Swingers, Before the Devil Knows You're Dead, Good Will Hunting, Pulp Fiction, LA Confidential, The Godfather, Goodfellas, Casino...have you guessed I might like mob movies?

Shows: BREAKING BAD, House of Cards, Sons of Anarchy, Homeland, Louie, Daily Show, Colbert Report. Definitely worth a shot messaging me if you love Louie CK and/or Jon Stewart. I'm betting we'll have a lot in common.

Music: Tallest Man on Earth, Fleet Foxes, Zeppelin, Guster, Two Door Cinema Club, The Kooks, The Strokes, Radiohead, Jack Johnson, Coldplay, random 90s one hit wonders, indie folk/rock, catchy electronic stuff. Very passionate about's a huge part of my day-to-day life.

Food: I eat and like pretty much anything (try Googling haggis and black pudding if you're curious), and am always willing to try new foods. And I love Sushi. I'm convinced I've found the best place in the Boston area that won't completely drain your wallet. Any challengers?
The six things I could never do without
Family, friends, laughing, exercising, good food, music. My dog is a close seventh.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
People: what motivates them, why they do the things they do, and what you can do to change behavior. I tend to be future oriented, and often think about where I’ll be/what I’m doing in the next 5-10 years of my life. It’ll probably be a lot less exciting than what I fantasize, but it’s fun to be a dreamer.
On a typical Friday night I am
I tend to keep it pretty low key after getting home from work. I could be hanging out watching a movie in my apartment, grabbing drinks with friends, or chilling out and reading a book. I definitely tend to flock towards smaller groups and like it when everyone interacts with each other more intimately.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you're mature, value honesty and aren't afraid of vulnerability, I think we'd hit it off. Definitely a plus if you're someone who's not uptight and can laugh at yourself just as easily as you can laugh at me. It's more attractive than meets the eye...