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jjfm1

30 M Astoria, NY

My Details

Last Online
Mar 6
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I’m originally from a small coastal town in California and I’m proud of my small town roots. After graduating from UC Davis, I moved to Boulder, Colorado for 3 years before ultimately settling down in the city. I've been here for over 4 years and have lived in the same Astoria apartment for 3.5 of that.

Working in a fast paced environment and exploring this energetic city, I often turn to meditation to center myself and regain my inner peace. I am deeply spiritual and would love to meet a partner that isn't intimidated by incense or tarot cards.

I'm a little shy and awkward at first, but open up pretty quickly.

A co-worker recently described me as Zooey Deschanel in New Girl…
What I’m doing with my life
"Let the beauty we love be what we do." -Rumi

I spent the last year working as a motivational speaker for children. Traveling throughout the US, Canada, England, and Australia, I spoke to groups of 500 to 2000 kids a day, inspiring them to believe in themselves and their dreams and not to give up on their goals.

While the year of travel was thrilling, I recently came back to a promotion with the company I had been with for the 6 previous years. As Special Projects Manager for a large locally owned business, based out of Tribeca, I get to combine my passion for children and business.

On the side, I have two children's books in the works, one near completion.
I’m really good at
-entertaining children
-writing
-hosting theme parties
-dancing really badly
-reading tarot cards
-yoyo (I try to keep this one a secret)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV: I'm a reality show junkie.... I stay current on all things Bravo, I think 1 Girl, 5 Gays is a fascinating social study and I find Drag Race thoroughly exciting. On a deeper level, the Oprah interviews on the OWN network are absolutely addicting and Super Soul Sunday has turned into a Sunday morning ritual.

YouTube: I often get lost in Ted Talk marathons.

Books: A New Earth, Eckhart Tolle; You Can Heal Your Life, Louise Hay; The Things That Matter, Nate Berkus; A Course In Miracles

Food: I love to try new recipes in the kitchen (some meals are more successful than others). But, as a New Yorker, I also eat out A LOT. I love sushi!

Other: I’m obsessed with instagram and even sell some of my iphoneography on http://instacanv.as/jjfm
The six things I could never do without
- friends / family
- Snuggie
- lawn games (most particularly Molkky)
- coffee
- meditation
- this turkey recipe (http://www.saveur.com/article/Recipes/Chile-Rubbed-Roast-Turkey)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-how to get a six pack without actually working out.
-how long it's been since my last yoga class and how much it's going to hurt when I work up the courage to finally go back
-how the choices I have made / people I have met have led me to where I am today.
-what I'm going to do when I get rich.
On a typical Friday night I am
-happy hour with co-workers
-hosting a dinner party for friends
-wearing sweatpants with a giant order of take-out
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My first crushes were Patrick Swayze and Aladdin. I accepted the job as a professional yoyo player, before I knew how to yoyo...
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 22–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you prefer dinner / drinks with friends over a night at XL.