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34 Cupertino, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am social with a warm personality but selective of the people who I am close with. I have a loyal heart and a free spirit.

I aspire to have meaningful things, not things for status, and I'd like to have a living room where people gather to plan & organize.

One night, this is where I'd like to find myself sitting with a close friend or two, having a cold drink on a balmy night:


Hold me out there
Kiss me out there
Yes, thats my mom, my dad, my sister, my brother, my friends
my community out there.
Its safe, its safe, its safe

But not all the world is safe
not all the country is safe
not all this block is safe
your family isn't safe
Is it? Is it? Is it?

But out there is isn't all danger
We've made this place safe
Gilded every door
But I want to go out there
So come hold my hand

Let the stares run off you
Let my fear run off me
Let their judgements run off them
ablution, ablution, ablution

But when its you
when its you
that asks me to stay

I'll see you on the outside
with that friendly handshake
and a smile on my face
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Uncling x 2--I have two wonderful nephews that I spend a lot of time with while I'm at home.

I recently finished a post doing research and programatic support for international crisis prevention & recovery. I am looking forward to building on these skills aka job hunting.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
creating community wherever I go.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That depends on you and the context we meet in.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: My Side of the Mountain, The Sparrow, and Descent into Chaos. blah blah blah

Movies: Terminator 2--true story, The Last Unicorn, Girlfriend Boyfriend

Music: Whatever my up-to-date friends send. I love good vocals and smart lyrics. Ben Harper, Ani Di Franko, Lauryn Hill and the Coup all use to be staples. Aloe Blacc.

Food: one of my favorite dishes is pigs feet with noodles, if that makes you squeamish move along.

TV: I watch crap and I love it: Master Chef, Tabitha's Salon Makeover, Faceoff, Witches of East End, and Ink Master.

Stuff with a little more story telling: House of Cards, GoT, Misfits, Tabitha's Salon Makeover, Being Human, DS9, BSG, Voyager, ATLAB, & MLPFIM.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My double walled layered clean Kanteen tumbler (unpaid advertisement)
-Wood tipped metal chopsticks
-a good backpack
-comfortable shoes
-computer stuffs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Those awkward moments when you feel uncomfortable and what the best way to respond to them in the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm probably with my nephews or with my cousins playing smash brothers--the original one--i can't believe we are 33.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My cat died the night I came out to my mother. Rest in peace metro!
You should message me if
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