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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Sep 17
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
My self-summary
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Proper Bostonian transplant with a sense of humor.

I love going to museums and flea markets, galleries and exploring the city in general.

Love to tango!

I am open to just about ANY cultural or social event, though I do prefer low class high brow or hi class low brow. I particularly enjoy vintage or artist related parties.

I'd love someone to go on short adventures with, but sitting on the couch of a lazy Sunday has its charms as well.

Current fantasy is packing a bag and grabbing whatever Chinese bus I happen across. Anyone up for an adventure?
What I’m doing with my life
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I am self employed as an editor for film and video and have recently started developing a few projects of my own!

A fine art and rock photographer with a few shows under my belt.

Now dipping my toes into house hunting for the first time. Ug!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Jeez I don't often toot my own horn but I am an excellent and highly intuitive artist.

Telling stories, making people laugh, seeing things nobody else does.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
By all the funny looks I'm not sure I wanna to know.

I often have a slight BCBG element to my personal style.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Bukowski, Terry Pratchett, Larry Niven, Alan Furst and Gene Wolfe, Christopher Hitchens (but mainly because he really knew how to mouth off on tv) Don Quixote (yup- I actually read the whole thing), PG Wodehouse, Johnathan Ames.

Movies: Damsels In Distress is the last film I enjoyed. THE ARTIST!!! Henry and June, Bright Young Things. Naked Lunch, Every single film of Guy Madden, The Hunger, Hellraiser (1+2 ONLY), Brick, Any and All Rifftrax (and some Rhasberry Bros - but they only perform live), Princess Mononoke, Labrynth, Akira, The Name of The Rose, Blade Runner, Event Horizon, the Thing. Secretary, Willie Wonka and the ORIGINAL chocolate factory, Metropolitan, Raising Arazona. Swimming to Cambodia, Empire Records.

Photography/Artists: Josef Koudelka, David Lachapele, Cindy Sherman and Nan Golden (tried to be a photographer like her but my friends aren't thieves and drug addicts - life is so unfair). Gustav Klimpt, Vito Acconci, Basil Wolverton, David Grey. To be continued.

TV: Whit Stillman's The Cosmopolitans, The Strain, Game of Thrones, Never Mind the Buzzcocks, Celebrity Juice, QI - (any british show where people use their wits instead of a script), IT Crowd, Bobs Burgers, Family Guy. Bordwalk Empire, Walking dead.

Music: A little bit of everything. Brahms, Old Timey Jazz, Rockabilly, The Cramps, SKA! Brian Eno, John Hassel, Joy Division, the Scofflaws, Dead Kennedies, Django Rheinheart, Joe Walsh, Wolfsheim, to be continued.

Food: Root Beer, Any espresso, Chinese, Steak (but prefer to cook it myself), Sushi, Homade bread, Cheese, Peanut butter soup. Jello, Oh- and Twinkie milk shakes. I also like diddling with recipies from out of historical cookbooks. When it comes to fine dining I prefer to buy a famous resturaunt's cookbook and make the dishes myself.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Happiness, friends, hope, love, curiosity and pleasure.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I also spend a lot of time thinking about creative projects ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about. I prefer going to new places and meeting new kinds of people.

Ironically, I also love vintage, retro or arts events. Burner parties, Dances of Vice (no vice involved- just vintage music and vintage dress up), Wits end.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The most private thing I'm willing to admit is that like everyone else on earth I post everything there is to know about whatever I'm doing and experiencing on Facebook.

Ya, well, not really.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Why would I want to limit my experiences in life because of some arbitrary judgment based upon the transitory, ever shifting internal life of someone I haven't even met?

So message me for whatever reason you like.

That being said I do get along much better with people who are unique or eccentric in some way. Shy or outgoing is fine.