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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–100
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Aug 19
White, Other
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from Ph.D program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Seeing Someone
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update: looking for friends (without benefits) n the Bristol / Cardiff / Swansea area :)

ENFP. Big time.

Realistically, we are very unlikely to get along if you don't like people all that much. Just putting it out there. I'm pretty compassionate.

I'm a... (not wanting to be defined by my preoccupations, pursuits or proclivities, but still...) filmmaker – three documentaries and one fiction feature deep, now embarking on a new doc – apparently obsessed with the relationship between technology, power and our potential, as people, to do great things. On the other hand I also run a platform - like, yeah, I suppose a 'startup' - which helps people who make creative work distribute it to the world. I also scratch around trying to write another novel - recently compromised by hurling water into my laptop. That was the idea of what I was going to do until I actually made a film, back when, and still I can't quite leave it alone. And sometimes I make music, usually when wistful. I'm not often wistful.

I've recently emanated a beard.

In between those poles, can you imagine me? I wiggle back and forth between analytical and dreamy. I have a PhD, but I've stayed almost completely outside academia.

I love nothing more than a whipsmart friend with wild thoughts.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
please see the above, or apply within for links, bona fides and references
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
ontological reparations. This means you.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have never asked and suspect I don't want to know :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I do judge other people by these stupid lists so I guess I should give it a go even though it's very random. Bulgakov, Yoshimoto Banana, Henry Miller, PKD, Agnes varda, Chris Marker, David Lynch, David Cronenberg, Aphex Twin, Brian Eno, Joy division, Kraftwerk, Trans Am, Velvet Underground, Vangelis. Kafka. Coetzee. Murakami. Michael Mann. Mikhal Bulgakov. Buddha. Baudelaire. Tarkovsky. ESG. Little Dragon. Sonic Youth. My Bloody Valentine (especially if there is MDMA involved). Duke Ellington. John Coltrane. Sketches of Spain. De Sade (actually his writing is shit.) I'm going to start stealing lists from other people I like :) Ernest Hemingway, Cormac McCarthy, Vladimir Nabokov, William Blake, Louis armstrong, Secretary, Curtis Mayfield, Bon Iver, William Oldham. Pasolini. Beckett. Kiarostami. BOOKS: James Baldwin, Breaking Bad, Damages, Wu-Tang Clan, Raymond Carver, Bukowski, Foucault, Sartre, Walter Benjamin, Dostoyevsky, Camus, Faulkner, Yo La Tengo, Glenn Gould, Coltrane, Billie Holiday, Bach, Arvo Part, Bill Evans, My Bloody Valentine, La Jetée by Chris Marker, Sans Soleil, Orson Welles, ,Godard,Tarkovsky,Haneke, Audiard, Wong Kar wai, Hitchcock,Kubrick, Bergman, Coen Brothers, Bruno Dumont, Phillipe Grandrieux.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The little creatures I found living in the ceiling cavity, but they need a lot of attention.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Staying present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at your house, rifling through your shit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This would take all day. I'll admit everything. Seriously, just ask me and i'll make you a list.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm often up for random chat at inappropriate times of the day and night on entirely inappropriate topics.