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31 London, UK Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–33
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 10:41am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Thai (Okay), French (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), Turkish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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NOTE: From Nov 19 to March 6th, I will be at sea and unable to reply to messages in any sort of timely manner. I do like to receive them though, if you don't mind waiting, and will try to get back to you when I'm back on land.

"Whenever I find myself growing grim about the mouth; whenever it is a damp, drizzly November in my soul; whenever I find myself involuntarily pausing before coffin warehouses, and bringing up the rear of every funeral I meet... then, I account it high time to get to sea as soon as I can. This is my substitute for pistol and ball. With a philosophical flourish Cato throws himself upon his sword; I quietly take to the ship." [HM]
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I write stories about journeys I'm taking and the people I meet on them. When I run out of cash, I sell weasel words.

I don't own a car, property, or a drivers licence, I can't seem to stay in one place, and I'm horrible with house keys and cell phones. But I have a decent body and a head full of stories if you get me in a talking mood.

I'm interested in meeting people that fascinate, and those who are kind. I'm a fan of debonaire taxi drivers, punch drunk boxers, ghetto geishas, Tang dynasty poets, and the Wu Tang Clan.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at Filipino knife fighting and am a surprisingly competent cook.

Not good at: keeping my head still while drawing; emptying my wallet of receipts, coupons and amulets; exchanging pleasantries with fathers; telling jokes
The first things people usually notice about me
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They like the way I diddy bop.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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These things go in my blender: Tom Waits, avocados, Li Po, Matsuo Basho, agedashi tofu, Sam Selvon, Nas, espresso, Earl Lovelace, guiness punch, The Pogues, Nina Simone, shrimp tails, Tupac, Billie Holiday, sea bream, Hunter S Thompson, peyote mushrooms, Klashnekoff, Kazuo Ishiguro, Tako-raisu, Ben Okri, JD Salinger, limes, Compay Segundo, Junot Diaz, Italo Calvino, ginger.

I prefer street food, or at least to sit on the terrace if we're at a restaurant. I don't like Balut, sheep brains, or Palawan woodworm. Also, no swine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
'I want what everybody wants, / that's how I know I'm still / breathing: deep mix, rapture / and longing' [MD]

And maybe also good company, good liquor, and second chances
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A little farm in Mexico with a boxing ring for local prospects. A veranda and a mahogany desk. Clothes drying on the line. Old fighters in jaunty hats smoking cohibas. Tahitian girls under waterfalls. Good wine. A few horses. An old ducati scrambler. Kids running around out back. Fuck.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
schmoozing/caterwauling/fishing for change
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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These nights are vastly long.

Two days of enchantment in a new city will always be big draw, but I've been side glancing monogomy, continuity, building flat pack bookshelves, walking Alaskan Mallamutes, and thinking hmmm.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Current OKC profile red flag words: 'banter', 'beverages', 'creative' as a noun - e.g 'I am a creative living in Hackney.'

Great words to have: 'callipygian', 'intrepid', 'kool aid,' as in, 'don't drink the...'

I tend to be drawn to people who have grown up with/live with multiple cultural influences. this is not a requisite, but if you've lived in another country, your mother is from a different place to your father, you have a mixed up accent or hold more than one passport, it's more likely to have legs.