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31 Tokyo, Japan Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–33
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 28
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Thai (Okay), French (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), Turkish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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NOTE: From Nov 19 to March 6th, I will be at sea and unable to reply to messages in any sort of timely manner. I do like to receive them though, if you don't mind waiting, and will try to get back to you when I'm back on land.

"Whenever I find myself growing grim about the mouth; whenever it is a damp, drizzly November in my soul; whenever I find myself involuntarily pausing before coffin warehouses, and bringing up the rear of every funeral I meet... then, I account it high time to get to sea as soon as I can. This is my substitute for pistol and ball. With a philosophical flourish Cato throws himself upon his sword; I quietly take to the ship." [HM]
What I’m doing with my life
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I recently returned from an assignment that required me to live on a boat for three months. Now I'm trying to build a social business in a Cambodian town called Sihanoukville.

I write for a meagre living with a little moonlight on the side.

I don't own a car, property, or a drivers licence, I can't seem to stay in one place, and I'm horrible with house keys and cell phones. But I have a decent body and a head full of stories if you get me in a talking mood.

I'm interested in meeting people that fascinate, and those who are kind. I'm a fan of debonaire taxi drivers, punch drunk boxers, ghetto geishas, Tang dynasty poets, and the Wu Tang Clan.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at Filipino knife fighting and am a surprisingly competent cook.

Not good at: keeping my head still while drawing; emptying my wallet of receipts, coupons and amulets; exchanging pleasantries with fathers; telling jokes
The first things people usually notice about me
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They like the way I diddy bop.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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These things go in my blender: Tom Waits, avocados, Li Po, Matsuo Basho, agedashi tofu, Sam Selvon, Nas, espresso, Earl Lovelace, guiness punch, The Pogues, Nina Simone, shrimp tails, Tupac, Billie Holiday, sea bream, Hunter S Thompson, peyote mushrooms, Klashnekoff, Kazuo Ishiguro, Tako-raisu, Ben Okri, JD Salinger, limes, Compay Segundo, Junot Diaz, Italo Calvino, ginger.

I prefer street food, or at least to sit on the terrace if we're at a restaurant. I don't like Balut, sheep brains, or Palawan woodworm. Also, no swine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
'I want what everybody wants, / that's how I know I'm still / breathing: deep mix, rapture / and longing' [MD]

And maybe also good company, good liquor, and second chances
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A little farm in Mexico with a boxing ring for local prospects. A veranda and a mahogany desk. Clothes drying on the line. Old fighters in jaunty hats smoking cohibas. Tahitian girls under waterfalls. Good wine. A few horses. An old ducati scrambler. A wife who speaks no English. Kids running around out back. Fuck.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
schmoozing/caterwauling/fishing for change
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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People who keep mentioning how happy they are worry me
You should message me if
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You've mastered all of the 64 arts of the karmasutra, or at least have some expertise in one of the following skills: #6 The Art of Tattooing, #8 The art of spreading flowers on the bed or on the ground, #12 Producing music by striking glasses with water, #21 Magic (sorcery), #32 Skills at martial arts (the skills to use sword, stick, bow and arrow), #42 Teaching parrots or starlings to talk, #55. Using mantras to take away others’ possession, and #59. Knowledge of gymnastics