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39 • Grand Rapids, MI • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 27–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Strictly anything
- Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Working on space camp
- Rather not say
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Likes dogs
I consider myself to be intellegent, quick witted, fiercy loyal, a pretty good listener, and an introvert with extroverted tendencies.
I am more of a city/ indoor person. I have done things like camping and hiking, but tend to shy away from them because those things happen in places where bears live. Lakes and stuff are cool to sit by, but doing stuff in them freaks me out because they are fish toilets. I also don't like to run.
Stories are super important to me. I thrive on times when I go back and forth with my friends trading stories. I have a few good ones, and quite frequently I find myself relaying my friends' stories to other people. It's funny, because most people might consider their lives to be a failure being in their mid-thirties with no wife, kids, or amazing career, but I feel my life has been amazing for the people I have gotten to know and the stories I have told, heard, and been a part of over the years.
I have been single for a long time, but it has definitely been a choice I've made. I'm at the point now where I'm ready for a change. I want to meet a woman who fascinates me, and continues to do so for as long as I know her. I want to meet someone who I can talk with for hours and not even realize the time has flown by. Someone to laugh with and create new memories with. Maybe I want too much...
movies: Take Shelter, Exit Through the Gift Shop, Trollhunter, Let the Right One In, True Romance, The Road, Control, Smoke
shows: Fringe, Freaks and Geeks, The Mighty Boosh, Doctor Who (although, I will contend that Tom Baker was the only real Doctor)
music: As varied as it gets. Mostly stuff that is nowhere near mainstream (although I love bands that follow the pop formulas). My main points of interest these days are: British music, Black Metal, Hip Hop, Noise, Hard Core, Pop punk, late 90's emo, Biffy Clyro, etc. Music is the most important thing in my world, so I love checking it all out. As important as it is to me, I'm not looking for someone who likes the same stuff as I do. Just know that if you are way into John Mayer or country, I would be a good one to avoid. I just never want to be dragged along to a show featuring either (it's my only real deal breaker). Wait, can I change my answer to Gin Blossoms? I love Gin Blossoms.
food: Chicago-style hot dogs (the relish needs to be authentic). I am also a big fan of anything that has peanut butter in it.
sports (Especially ice hockey)
I've also spent some time thinking about why cultural norms are what they are. Why do people scream when they are afraid or applaud when they approve of something or smooch when they are into somebody of the opposite sex? How did those things become what we do? Why not something else? Humans are weird.
...you don't want to go camping.
...you are as cool as Kim Deal.
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