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jk21376

38 M Grand Rapids, MI

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:17pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
How does one go about summing oneself up? Why did I phrase that as if I were British royalty?

I consider myself to be intellegent, quick witted, fiercy loyal, a pretty good listener, and an introvert with extroverted tendencies.

I am more of a city/ indoor person. I have done things like camping and hiking, but tend to shy away from them because those things happen in places where bears live. Lakes and stuff are cool to sit by, but doing stuff in them freaks me out because they are fish toilets. I also don't like to run.

Stories are super important to me. I thrive on times when I go back and forth with my friends trading stories. I have a few good ones, and quite frequently I find myself relaying my friends' stories to other people. It's funny, because most people might consider their lives to be a failure being in their mid-thirties with no wife, kids, or amazing career, but I feel my life has been amazing for the people I have gotten to know and the stories I have told, heard, and been a part of over the years.

I have been single for a long time, but it has definitely been a choice I've made. I'm at the point now where I'm ready for a change. I want to meet a woman who fascinates me, and continues to do so for as long as I know her. I want to meet someone who I can talk with for hours and not even realize the time has flown by. Someone to laugh with and create new memories with. Maybe I want too much...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Still trying to figure that bit out. I have lots of ideas of how to make an impact on this world, but loads of self doubt that keeps me from taking the first step.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing Ugly Kid Joe's one hit at karaoke. Also, laughing, making people laugh, telling stories, and storing and recalling trivia.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my laugh(s). Physically? I have no idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: mostly non-fiction. I usually am reading about three books at a time. Mostly history or biographies. Favorites include Our Band Could Be Your Life, The Road, Devil in the White City, Blood and Thunder.

movies: Take Shelter, Exit Through the Gift Shop, Trollhunter, Let the Right One In, True Romance, The Road, Control, Smoke

shows: Fringe, Freaks and Geeks, The Mighty Boosh, Doctor Who (although, I will contend that Tom Baker was the only real Doctor)

music: As varied as it gets. Mostly stuff that is nowhere near mainstream (although I love bands that follow the pop formulas). My main points of interest these days are: British music, Black Metal, Hip Hop, Noise, Hard Core, Pop punk, late 90's emo, Biffy Clyro, etc. Music is the most important thing in my world, so I love checking it all out. As important as it is to me, I'm not looking for someone who likes the same stuff as I do. Just know that if you are way into John Mayer or country, I would be a good one to avoid. I just never want to be dragged along to a show featuring either (it's my only real deal breaker). Wait, can I change my answer to Gin Blossoms? I love Gin Blossoms.

food: Chicago-style hot dogs (the relish needs to be authentic). I am also a big fan of anything that has peanut butter in it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music
friends
books
movies
good food
sports (Especially ice hockey)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...alternate realities. It's not that I avoid reality, it is just interesting to think about what life would be like based on different choices I have made and have been made around me. Lately, my thoughts along these lines have been about how every moment in my life has led to this moment. Your life events have led you to this point as well (reading my silly profile on OkCupid! :P).

I've also spent some time thinking about why cultural norms are what they are. Why do people scream when they are afraid or applaud when they approve of something or smooch when they are into somebody of the opposite sex? How did those things become what we do? Why not something else? Humans are weird.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working. Ah, the joys of a second shift job. Saturday nights, though? Oh boy. I'm usually...not doing much. I'm just not a "go out to the bar" kind of guy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't believe it's not butter.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you read something here that made you smile.

...you don't want to go camping.

...you are as cool as Kim Deal.