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jkatra

38 / M / Straight / Single

Portland, Oregon

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:20pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm witty and wise.

I don't watch television. I do watch people. I sometimes watch the blue haze during a sunrise far in the horizon.

I'm comfortable reading anything: Zen haiku, business strategy, psychology, a biography of a musician, etc. I'm an INTJ Mastermind according to MBTI. I love eating Thai food, and I like innovative 1960's jazz music late at night. I go on lengthy nature hikes into the Oregon rain.

I'm seeking someone with integrity and kind honesty. I strongly value women who have patience, emotional stability and wisdom. Negotiation skills are also important to smooth out differences.

I like jazz music, Buddhism (but most Christians find me to be compatible), intellectual conversations, doing some light nature hiking around the Columbia River Gorge, travel, art, humor, Thai food, and eating ice cream late at night.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I help design disability insurance products to protect people. I really like the thrill of discovering new information and using it to create competitive advantages.
I’m really good at
being an evil genius, not being an evil genius when the situation calls for it, competitiveness, honesty, research, creativity and strategy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have very dark half-Greek eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience, Everyday Zen, Last Child in the Woods, Half the Sky, In a Sunburned Country, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Tao Te Ching, Nothing to Envy, The Sex Lives of Cannibals, Wherever You Go, There You Are, Complications, Into the Wild, Into Thin Air, The Cow In The Parking Lot, Good Strategy, Bad Strategy, Heart of Darkness, Memories, Dreams, Reflections

Authors:
Bill Bryson, Jung, Jon Krakauer, Dan Ariely, Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, Jiddu Krishnamurti, Charlotte Beck, Peter Lynch, myself

Movies:
My Dinner With Andre, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, Amelie (I'm the only guy I know who likes this movie, lol), Manhattan, Annie Hall, As Good As It Gets, Groundhog Day, Planet Earth, Back to the Future, The Last Emperor, A Beautiful Mind, Dark City

Music:
Thelonius Monk, Grant Green, Ron Carter, Wayne Shorter, Eric Dolphy, Houston Person, Sonny Rollins, Erin Bode, Jane Monheit, Kenny Burrell, Bill Evans, John Coltrane, Stanley Turrentine, Freddie Hubbard, Antonio Carlos Jobim, Stan Getz, Bobby Hutcherson, Wynton Marsalis, Brad Mehldau, Kenny Barron, Miles Davis, Rachmaninov, Chopin, Schubert, Nicola Benedetti, Hilary Hahn

Food: Thai food, especially red and yellow curry

TV: House MD, MST3K, Lost, Buffy the Vampire Slayer (if you've never seen Buffy, the show is much better than you think it is)
The six things I could never do without
1. Humor
2. Jazz
3. Nature
4. Honesty
5. Reading
6. Health
7. A 7th Thing That You Probably Like Too
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Ambiguities and paradoxes, jazz rhythms, interactions between different personalities, competitive strategy, psychology and the meaning of the universe.
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching Netflix movies, reading, going downtown to a bookstore, listening to new music, working out with yoga, playing some kind of game, or eating Thai food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm using an online dating website.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You're creative, intelligent, kind, and non-materialistic.