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36 M Saint Louis, MO

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:51pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm very artsy and technical. I draw, design, sculpt, take photos, and can sweat code like I'm in a sauna - in the Matrix.

If the previous line has you mumbling "blah blah blah", fear not! I can also be a teaser and an instigator, but it's all in good fun. I love learning new things. Currently I'm learning to cook and do handstands. Though not at the same time. So should we hang out, I'm sure we'll have plenty to talk about. Don't worry if you're nervous - I'll just tease you!

I'm not looking for a "trophy girlfriend", but I am looking for a real prize. I'm much more interested in personality. My must have list is short and sweet: loyal, flexible (not the physical kind - but it would help if you plan on beating me at Twister), and giving.

I'm from right here in the midwest. I love what the city has to offer: museums, dining, parks, rooftop bars. I also love the outdoors. I've torched my share of campfire marshmallows. And I grew up on a farm. Which probably helps explain my love of mountain biking. It might not completely explain my ability to climb things (see climbing photo Exhibit A). Fun fact: I learned to drive on a tractor. We had ponds, woods, and um, goats. Goats, for the uninitiated, are trouble makers.

I can also be a bit of a trouble maker myself. If there's chemistry I'm not scared of making the first move. Despite what you may have heard, "real men" still exist. Gentlemen in fact. I will open the door for you. Momma didn't raise no fool. But I won't take it easy on you at darts. Or bowling. Or billiards. Not that I'm good at any of those. I just enjoy stimulating competition. And conversation.

So shoot me a message and dazzle me with your wit. I double dog dare you. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Striving for balance and enlightenment. Strategery for my business. Travel. Travel. And more travel.
I’m really good at
Krav Maga, rock climbing, learning stuff, dodgeball, programming, design, drawing, converting oxygen to carbon dioxide. Oh, and thumb wrestling - you've been warned.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books & Such: Stephen King, The Miracle of Mindfulness, Essential Zen, Born to Run, Travel Guides (New York Times 36 Hours), Wired, Dwell, GQ, Esquire, and Wallpaper Magazines.


Movies & TV: Pulp Fiction, Snatch, Oh Brother Where Art Thou, Inception, Shawshank Redemption, The Matrix, The English Patient, the girl with the dragon tattoo series, Bourne Series, American Beauty, Cool Hand Luke, The King's Speech, The Sixth Sense, Donnie Darko, Memento, The Dark Knight, Unforgiven, Blazing Saddles, Moonrise Kingdom, Breaking Bad, The Wire, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, Louie, The Walking Dead, Game O' Thrones.

Music: I like all music except country. Seriously. (Though I suspect Johnny Cash is a gateway drug.) Sample: Sleigh Bells, Excision, Eminem, Snoop Dogg, Chrispy, Led Zeppelin, Skrillex, Parliament, Funkadelic, Pantera, Busta Rhymes, Cypress Hill, Far East Movement, Prodigy, The Crystal Method, B-Boy music in general, ZZ Top, B.B. King, Beastie Boys, Cake, Ludacris, Iron & Wine, Cumberland Gap, The Detroit Cobras, DJ Shadow, Eve, Red Hot Chili Peppers, James Brown, Lamb, Massive Attack, Morcheeba, Nelly, local awesomeness Kim Massie, A Perfect Circle, Rage Against the Machine, Red and Meth, The Rolling Stones, Run DMC, Santana, MIA, SRV, T.I., Thievery Corporation, White Zombie/Rob Zombie. Just found Sharon Jones and the Dap Kings.

Food: Sushi! I love trying new and international foods with a preference for healthy and organic. I recently acquired a Froyo addiction. Oops. Japanese BBQ and good ol' 'Merican BBQ.
The six things I could never do without
1) My friends & family
2) a sense of humor
3) adventure
4) the internet
5) my phone
6) art (and I think anything at its highest form is art)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Architecture, sculpture, art in general. How to better balance myself. Especially during hand stands. What to see while I'm exploring someplace new. Where to travel to next. I think a lot.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Those documents are sealed. Should you somehow manage to earn the requisite security clearance, ask me about "The Roller Blading Incident at Forest Park". Fun shall be had. At my expense.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You seek a tag team bear wrestling partner. I'll hit 'em high, you hit 'em low.